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  1. Rollo Tomassi

    Girlfriend: "What if one day you find someone better than me?"

    "What if one day you find someone better than me?" "Well, if it comes to that lets just hope you've been keeping up with your cardio workouts and took those pole dancing classes i asked you to ok?"
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    The Pusssy/Self-Esteem Dichotomy

    Counterpoint: Beware of making your necessity a virtue. It's been my experience that the guys who are the most vocal about the merits of self-esteem and personal integrity trumping sexual experience are generally the same guys who aren't hooking up with any real frequency anyway. Remember, a...
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    When She says she has a boyfriend

    What you're describing is the Boyfriend Disclaimer, also known as a Proactive LJBF. The Boyfriend Disclaimer rejection occurs when a woman slips the information of her unavailability (due to the BF) covertly into casual conversation. I've covered this countless times with frustrated guys asking...
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    The "Love" word

    In the beginning you were the "Plan B" guy, so she put you on hold in the friend zone. At some point she realized that the "Plan A" guy wasn't going to reciprocate for whatever reason and she felt the need to stoke your fire, since in the meantime she came to realize you have at least some Alpha...
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    Talking about "game" in public

    Every random chump within earshot of your conversation about Game, about your 'changed' way of seeing inter-gender relations, about your most objective critical observations of how women 'are', etc. – understand, that chump waits everyday for an opportunity to "correct" you in as public a way as...
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    Urge to rekindle long-distance

    It hurts my soul to read 26 y.o. men write this sappy rationalization shít. You haven't even begun to realize your true potential yet you're eager to put on the handcuffs of monogamy and commitment. Son, I am disappointed,..
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    Chick considers men who stop giving her attention when she gets fat as "shallow"

    This may come as a shock to the “men have impossibly high beauty standards” gnashing of feminist teeth, but it is in fact women who have a much higher standard for an idealized male physique.
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    Ex-Husband still around? Looking for your views...

    Never forget, dumping a girl is the ultimate DHV. She will pursue you for a bit. You need to learn indifference. Stay strong. What's going to happen next is she's going to go into recovery mode. In psychological terms she's about to go into what's called an extinction burst. You've removed her...
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    Chick considers men who stop giving her attention when she gets fat as "shallow"

    Competition anxiety is a bîtch, aint it? I feel bad for what ever guy she ends up pulling her 'bait & switch' on. This is exactly the type of girl who'd let herself go the moment she'd secured commitment from a guy thinking he'd struck gold with a hotty who was into taking care of herself...
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    sosuave is doing a LIVE broadcast September 10th! [merged]

    Sorry, TM, had some responsibilities last Saturday. I'll try to be available this weekend. Yes, I'm human.
  11. Rollo Tomassi

    Can BPD woman really change?

    I can only speak from my own BPD experience, but the BPD I was involved with is still EXACTLY the same person as when I left her 17 years ago. I'm not making that up. At 43 she still lives with her equally neurotic mother, still has an almost childlike attachment to "disney things", doesn't...
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    Absurd online "laundry list"

    *sits back with bag of popcorn, waits for entertainment to begin*
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    Ex-Husband still around? Looking for your views...

    Enjoy your cuckolding.
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    Ex-Husband still around? Looking for your views...

    PDUBB, The Medium IS the Message. You're 100% right when you state that she's completely upfront and truthful with you, and she IS showing it with her action. What are her actions? Driving 5 hours to spend the weekend with an ex-husband whose infidelity was intolerable enough for them to...
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    Ex-Husband still around? Looking for your views...

    5 minutes of Alpha trumps 5 years of Beta. JULIUS outlined the situation pretty succinctly so I wont add more than to point out the bigger picture in PDUBB's situation. That is to say, beware the woman still fixated on a previous lover. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. When a...
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    In Study, Fatherhood Leads to Drop in Testosterone

    Oxytocin plays a critical part in regulating a man's testosterone levels. Just post-orgasm, the human body flushes oxytocin into the bloodstream to balance out the endorphin and dopamine high. While this hormone also promotes feelings of trust and comfort, it also serves to 'calm the guy down'...
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    Successful men that are AFC = paradox?

    A divorce attorney's bread and butter are the affluent, business executive, 'successful' men who thought that the virtue of their status also meant they knew how to deal with women. Just ask John Cleese about it.
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    sosuave is doing a LIVE broadcast September 10th! [merged]

    One of the reasons I started the blog was to address just that. Not to put too fine a point on it, but most people just blow past a big wall of text in a forum post. Unless they have a vested interest in what it is I'm elaborating upon, most readers tend to be a bit lazy. Even getting them to...
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    sosuave is doing a LIVE broadcast September 10th! [merged]

    If I can line it up for 3pm EST on Saturday I will. No promises, it's just going to depend on my event schedule. 1 hour's not too much to ask. We must do something about that echo. I wasn't aware of it on my end when we were recording.
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