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  1. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Like similar interests, outlook on life, values, music taste, etc.
  2. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I've never been able to pull that off. Even if I wanted to I never meet single women I'd want to date in real life. The only way I've been able to meet women is online. It sucks but if I didn't use apps I'd very likely still be a virgin.
  3. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I met her off tinder in fall of 2018 and the relationship lasted until fall 2019. Idk why it lasted that long, we didn't have that much in common but she at least was pleasant to be around, easy to talk to, pretty attractive, and she also would roll me blunts every time I visited her. With these...
  4. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I've never had very strong chemistry with women I've met for the most part, usually when I've met girls from apps the girl is more attracted to me than I am to her
  5. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I've gotten this too sometimes. When I've met a new girl on an app I get excited about seeing her but when I do in real life it's underwhelming and usually I don't pursue it any further than that
  6. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Bro this isn't any advice that would actually work. Even if I was in that situation and she pursued me I would still turn her down because at the end of the day it would be unprofessional to sleep with anyone I was in a band with. Furthermore I can't count on women pursuing me, and like I said I...
  7. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    If I were in a band with a female musician I wouldn't pursue her if that's what you're implying. When there's a couple in a band either the couple breaks up and the band stays together, or vice versa. Plus that would be unprofessional anyway if found myself in that situation and I tried to do...
  8. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    No honestly I can't count on my friends or bandmates introducing me to women, that literally never happens to me. We used to perform a lot more gigs but up until recently we were without a drummer for a few years so we couldn't really play live. We've essentially been relegated to being a...
  9. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I really don't know why my desires for hooking up with women have waned, and that's what I wonder the most. I used to be much more motivated for that but now I'm much more content just jerking off. As far as I can tell my motivation to date gradually waned over the years beginning with the end...
  10. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I don't really have a actual career but I've been playing in bands and recording music for over a decade, even if it doesn't pay the rent. I play guitar, bass, and sitar. Some of my other hobbies are learning languages and weightlifting
  11. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I’m a 27 year old guy and as I’ve gotten older I’ve noticed my desire to date has gradually waned. When I was in college I was always really excited about the prospect of trying to hook up with girls, especially since I was a late bloomer when it came to that sort of thing. Now, however, that...
  12. BergischerLöwe

    Spending semester abroad, need strategies (22m)

    I'm in AUSTRIA, not Australia
  13. BergischerLöwe

    Spending semester abroad, need strategies (22m)

    I'm a German/American dual national (I normally live in the States) spending a semester abroad in Salzburg, Austria until the end of April. During my time here (besides the obvious studying) I'm seeking to try and connect with the local women, as I've only met girls in the US so far, and I find...
  14. BergischerLöwe

    Is the sexual market so fücked up that this tattooed spherical gal is a match for this normal guy?

    I think it might be staged honestly, still funny how he breaks pretty much every rule in the book.
  15. BergischerLöwe

    Is the sexual market so fücked up that this tattooed spherical gal is a match for this normal guy?

    I like how she says "He's a good kid" when describing Skippy (a 30+ year old man), pretty much sums up how she actually views him.
  16. BergischerLöwe

    Is the sexual market so fücked up that this tattooed spherical gal is a match for this normal guy?

    Some more prime TLC cringe: (still probably staged though)
  17. BergischerLöwe

    Worried about dating prospects during, and after college

    I’m currently 22 and I’ve been in college for a few years now. Ever since I’ve first arrived here it has been one of my greatest hopes to improve my luck with women, after having no luck in that department in high school. However, right now there’s more than a few things working against me, and...
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