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Exactly, another reason why I won't have any. Kids have the potential to ruin relationships and marriages. In the unlikely event I get married, it can only be to a woman who also doesn't want kids

I see. According to this video I shouldn't count on falling in love or finding the right women for me as it's statistically very unlikely, but instead should derive meaning from other things in life. My religion (Vaishnavism) has a similar message. It's all about renouncing material desire, as...

So I either find a way to get the kind of relationship I want with a woman I'm actually excited about or I make peace with sitting on the sidelines?

I know but still I don't think pursuing local fame in some vague bid to get more women interested in me is a realistic prospect. After all, who the hell am I? That advice seems like a long shot and I don't desire material fame

Bro I'll never even be close to being that famous and recognizable. Their situations aren't comparable to my own in any respect whatsoever. For the most part the only people who even know or care who my band is are a few weird european hippies that buy our albums. The only time I've been...

Idk I don't really like social media that much and I don't want to spend that much time invested in it. Do I really need to become an influencer just to have attention from women? The whole thing sounds far fetched and not really relevant to my situation no offense

That's all well and good but all that would do is get the women to look at me but nothing more than that

I've thought about doing that but it still would be a long shot. I have literally no track record pulling girls irl as I keep saying, so even if I met an attractive single woman in such a location it's pretty much bound to fail. Usually when I come across attractive women in my day to day life I...

Man idk where I'd even go to try and meet women, I just know I wouldn't find what I'm looking for in bars

Yes I'd say this is true. But I have absolutely no outlet to meet women I'd actually be excited about dating. I'm stuck in the position I'm in and I'm not sure if there's a way out

Like I said I don't have the experience of pulling a girl from start to finish in real life, and even if I did I'm never in any situations where I'm around women I could possibly date at all. I can't see myself being successful in cold approach if I tried it, it wouldn't bring my any better...

Just because there's a profile I stumble across doesn't mean I'll get a match. I hate the fact I have to rely on apps but it's the only way I can hope to meet any women at all

How tho? Yeah deep down I do have a desire to meet women but my experiences with them have left me disillusioned and apathetic because I've never been truly satisfied with my dating life. Like I said I feel stuck attracting the kind of women I usually do even though there's many lesser men...

I really don't know how I'd find a woman like that. Chances are if there are women out there that are like that they're already going steady with someone else

Yeah with the first paragraph that's a good point. In my high school years when I should have been learning how to interact with women in real life I wasn't and when I entered college I hadn't even kissed a girl yet. There were probably girls in high school who would have gone out with me but I...

I see, you mean it in the strict sense of the term. In the grand scheme of things I'd rather regret not having children than regret having them. Furthermore certain mental health problems run heavily in my family and if I pass those traits on to any children I may have it will negatively affect...

I'm not trying to sound depressing, merely I'm describing the facts about my situation in an objective manner

I've considered having a vasectomy but I haven't gone thru with it yet. What's made me apprehensive is that some guys report horrible chronic pain after getting one, and with my luck I will too. I already don't really watch porn, especially not any depicting sex between a woman and a man. I...

Not necessarily. Most musicians I know only have average luck with women at best. Women aren't throwing themselves at rock n roll musicians nowadays, it's not the summer of love anymore and woodstock is long over

Cold approach is never anything that's caught on with me. I'm introverted by nature and cold approach seems rather contrived anyway. Anyone who does cold approach, even if they're good at it, has a low turnover rate. I wouldn't have any greater success trying to cold approach women than I...