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Exactly. At the end of the day all these things are all psychological weapons that have been targeted at us

1. Although my life habits are good, cold approach won't work for me for the reasons I already mentioned. 2. I too lack a social circle capable of introductions as well and I have no way of meeting women naturally irl. Dating apps are a load of crap but nevertheless it's the only way I can even...

I've never used it to try and get dates, seems like quite a long shot. Maybe IG works for influencers but not for the rest of us

Overall cold approach seems very much to me like 2008's solution to the problems of the modern dating scene. It may have worked then, but things have changed so much since then that most guys are better off not learning it. PUA stuff has become increasingly less relevant as the years have gone on

Yeah man that's what it feels like. On any forum I've posted on about this issue people have been quick to label me according to some incel stereotype and that's not what I'm actually like at all

I have quite healthy life habits, especially compared to the average man in the united sh!tholes of america. I work out, eat right, don't watch porn, and I stay away from subversive media. Cold approach won't work for me for the following reasons: 1. I am naturally introverted, so the prospect...

I already do a few of the things you suggest. I see a psychologist already and I work out regularly, I don't eat junk food or processed foods or anything containing soy, I almost never play video games, and for the past eight years I've avoided any hardcore porn and have only jerked off to...

I personally am very reluctant to visit an escort, even if I went back to the Old Country where it's legal. I'm pretty much certain that I wouldn't do that, especially since it's not really what I'm looking for. The only advantage seeing escorts would have in my eyes is that they'd be hotter...

How tho? I've only ever been able to meet women that I've dated or hooked up with via apps and now my borrowed time has run out too. Cold approach won't work for someone like me and I can't use social circle game either. I have no way of meeting women other than apps and even if I met one in...

So after reading this thread again and pondering everything written therein I still don't really know what I should be doing. This is a pretty complex issue and there's quite a few things going on here. It doesn't really appear that there's any good solution for the following reasons: 1. I'm...

Perhaps I should indeed find a second place to be a regular at, but right now idk where that would be. In any case I do think a big part of the problem is that I'm not usually in situations where I even talk to women in real life regardless of context. A couple days ago was the 4th of July, and...

This is all good, you seem to have analyzed my situation rather well. You're quite right that there's a lot going on here, my situation is extremely complex with many issues at play. I've done that step of becoming a regular somewhere to an extent, every week I attend lectures at my local temple...

That's what I've always thought. In ancient times I would have no problem finding women at all. But in this backwards modern society people have to do all this work for a reward that isn't worth it. It seems like there really isn't anything I can do besides hope that luck is in my favour. But...

Based on this, what should I be doing? From tech based methods I'd say any result I've gotten from them have just been by luck. I'd say I'm on the higher end of average in terms of looks, I'm in decent shape but not really shredded or anything. Could stand to lose some bodyfat but it's been very...

Maybe it would have worked if I were living in the Old Country in 19th Century or something but certainly not in present day America

No I don't have any brothers and my cousins are ten years younger than me. It's not possible for family or friends to introduce me to women. I can't count on that ever happening

I can go without sex anyway. As I said before I'm largely content just jerking off instead and it's been my choice that I haven't had sex since 2019. I want to actually meet a women I'm really compatible with and have sex with her, but I understand that the chances of this happening are slim to...

At the end of the day I still wouldn't do it, it's not really what I'm seeking

It's legal in the country where I was born but not where I live. I think over there it's at least cheaper than NV. I'm curious, what are the ways to screen for cops? Still wouldn't do it here, I'd get too sketched out. Plus it probably isn't what I'm looking for anyway. I can go without sex, and...

Idk if I'd try that or not but either way it's not legal anywhere near where I live