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One thing I've noticed that kinda refutes one viewpoint that some incels as well as some manosphere followers have is the phenomenon of how many unmasculine nerdy sort of guys have attractive girlfriends. The viewpoint I'm referring to is how certain incels or manosphere guys will talk about how...

Is that how you still feel now?

I'm not sure if that'd be the right path for me. Because I have ADHD it's crucial that I pick a field that I'm at least somewhat interested in, otherwise I'll have no motivation to work at all. From what I've heard IT stuff seems pretty mundane and I'm not even sure what I'd use a programming...

Any proposed solution drawn up by the government won't be with the interest of the people in mind, there's always a hidden ulterior motive with it. The powers that be always attack the symptom but not the cause, and structure any proposed "solution" so that they retain control

What I've noticed is that with issues like this is that usually when the media brings them up, they don't talk about a actual solution to the problem. It's like we're allowed to mention it, but not allowed to talk about how to remedy it in earnest. The closest thing to a "solution" that our...

For what it's worth Hinge is better than tinder or bumble, even if it's given me diminishing returns over the years

Hmm perhaps you're right. Maybe I have a bit more time than I perceived. Still once I hit 30 finding a soulmate will become much more difficult I would imagine

Preferably I wouldn't want casual encounters. As I've previously stated I'm tired of that and want something more lasting with a girl I'm really into. That's why I'm fed up with apps in the first place. With apps I haven't been able to meet a woman like that. I've paid for apps in the past but...

I never said I didn't use condoms. I do use them, I just don't want to have to rely on condoms alone. I guess I should clarify as well that I've had diminished returns on apps, they worked better for me in like 2017-18 than they do now. The quality and quantity of matches has declined since...

I'm a Hindu already, converted two years ago. There's a lot of the same teachings in Buddhism but Hinduism is more comprehensive

Well I'd like to have a fulfilling love life and have a relationship with a woman I'm really excited about, but this hasn't yet come to pass. Yes I can occasionally meet girls but it feels like the kind of women I want are a bit out of my reach. I wanted to experience something like that while...

Just because I can sometimes get mid women from apps and am used to doing using them doesn't mean that it's ideal. Over the years I've gotten diminishing returns from apps in terms of quality and quantity of matches, and as the years go on apps become increasingly monetized and less usable...

Not surprised that it happened in St Louis

Well then what should I do moving forward? I'm sick of apps and can't meet women naturally in real life either. So what option is left for me?

It's gonna take me a while to find things I can even do since daygame isn't much of an option for me

I haven't brought up that specific issue much but yeah. Even if I get more confidence in trying it still does nothing for the issue that I'm never in any situations where I'm naturally meeting women tho

It kinda sucked even before that tho

How?

No they were certified mid. I wouldn't sleep with women who were legit ugly or very significantly overweight. I don't feel very distressed about having gone without sex for such a long time, when I say big deal I'm mainly referring to the novelty of it after four years of none. Then again sex...

What should I do if I have no confidence in my ability to potentially meet and attract women irl? I've spoken of that numerous times on here and it's a huge problem. The only way I've learned how to meet women is apps and that's how it's worked for my entire adult life. I'd be more confident in...