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Might be. Idk how to get out of it tho

Any time I've posted on other forums about my issues in the dating game the suggestion that I try meeting women thru hobbies has always come up. When this has happened I would usually point out the shortcomings about the prospect of meeting women thru hobbies and how it's hard to succeed trying...

Yeah that's a good point, especially since no/lowfap gives me beer goggles. I think it's imperative that I don't lower my standards. One of the main reasons I've lost motivation to date is that I'm tired of meeting women I'm not that interested in

One big problem I've personally experienced with low/nofap is that after a few days of it I always get really horrible beer goggles

I haven't been able to sustain nofap for long term. Lowfap would likely be more sustainable but even then I always wind up falling off the wagon

I plan on staying childfree my whole life. How do you navigate meeting women without kids in your 30s? This is something I need to prepare for

You don't understand, it's not worth it for me to learn cold approach and I have no way of meeting women naturally. I got both of these things working against me

In other posts I've gone into depth why me trying to learn cold approach isn't a good idea

I feel like I'm trapped and have no choice but to use apps. Cold approach won't work for me and it's not worth it to learn it, and I'm never in any situations where I can meet women I can date irl. For the past few years I've wanted to phase out apps and meet women irl but I have no other...

Even though my dating life is mid at best, one thing I'm proud of never doing is lowering my standards out of desperation

Pretty much any hobby gets turned into a sausage fest when the advice to use hobbies to meet women gets thrown around. Hobbies are full of single men with the same idea. The advice to look for women thru hobbies is a meme. For guys that can't do cold approach, such as myself, there aren't really...

"Girls like a gentleman"

I remember when that roosh article came out. Didn't Rodger also possibly have autism or something similar? I've heard that before but as far as I know it's never been officially confirmed

That's true, and all those crimes were high profile but there really was a shift after Rodger. I was a senior in high school when that happened and I remember all the talk of incels in the media in the immediate aftermath, especially since I used to lurk on manoshpere blogs in those days. At the...

I think a big turning point in the history of redpill and blackpill communities is when Eliot Rodger happened. His crimes pushed incels and the black pill into the mainstream and after that there was no going back. After all that occurred the media backlash against the black and red pills became...

Yeah I can relate. If it wasn't for apps I probably would either still be a virgin or have lost it much later, and I already lost virginity pretty late at the age of 21

Because I've always used apps my text game is pretty decent at least. However the flip side is that to this day I've never initially met a woman irl and gone on to date her. Only ever learned how to approach online and it shows. I feel pretty inadequate because of that fact sometimes and I wish...

My feelings exactly on cold approach as well

a lot of these guys I'm talking about are really nerdy tho. They don't seem like the kind that are very socially actualized

I've heard people say that's not her, just a girl that looks like her. Either way Shapiro's sister has had a nose job