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Update - She uploaded the picture of the flowers to her social media earlier, she deleted it, shes now re-uploaded the picture of her and the guy. I dont follow her on that social media

Bit of a coincidence it all happened when the flowers got there? I have a date with someone else tomorrow, I will be looking to spin more plates.

My take is agreeing with btownbuck2012 in his comment very early on in this thread. She started exploring other guys when she wasnt getting what she wanted from me in the relationship, she was investing in me and showing actions of high IL, however I would not text her for days at a time, and...

update - The flowers arrived, she unblocked me then said thank you she loved them. I apologized, she said ok but to never be mean to her again. She called me excited, asked when we could meet, I saw her yesterday. It was like nothing had ever happened, I brought up the situation because I...

She beat me to it, I'm blocked. Did I really mess up that badly for all this to happen? Mustve if she was giving me abuse? She wouldve just ghosted if it was the guy. she is an unstable kid and would not talk about things, I had no idea anything was wrong, she is not forgiving. Are we agreed...

Anything couldve hapepened to me in those 3 days? We didnt text every day, she didnt text me in those 3 days either, I didnt ignore, there was no conversation about it, she just went cold, and now crazy going mad with abuse and trying to hurt me talking about another guy she now as.

Update - She sent me a message: I’m upset about you, in my opinion the relationship cannot continue. Ps you should hold your tounge when you talk to me. Her grammar isn’t great, and I wanted to speak to her on the phone, she wouldn’t pick up, I said call me because I don’t understand. She...

Update - I think there's another guy in the picture. She posted on social media a photo of her with a guy laying in her arms with a love heart. Someone else took the photo and it was uploaded at 3am... I'm honestly shocked, I met her the very day she landed to England, it was hard graft, 3rd...

Thanks for your reply man, I do see this girl as different to my other plates for so many reasons. Ive tried what worked on her in the past and been completely honest about my feelings and put everything on the line. Im not expecting much but we'll see. In terms of gaming I did game her, I...

I gamed her too hard. I took the rule of treat all women the same. Ive been on this forum for way too long learning all the hard and fast rules and completely messed up.

Update I tried to call her this evening as I wanted to ask her out, this was my final see as to what was going on. I called, no answer, the text conversation then goes like this: Her: did you call me? Me: yeah, are you free to talk? Her: not today :( Me: Thats okay! im just leaving for london...

I was very close, gutted, we would be in my car and id have her topless but she would always move my hands away, id freeze-out and try again but no luck, this went on 4-5 different meetings. Make-out sessions were very heavy. Just wouldnt let me go further. We agreed we would sleep with...

What can I do? her parents live in Russia. Im not looking for just a plate im looking for more. I had joked about it in the past about her parents going to kill me and she said well my parents are in russia and im here. She has a very strong connection with her mum. This is my 3rd day of NC...

No she is a virgin. I asked her about past relationships and she had been in one four month one in the past, hadnt slept with that guy either. I sucked up after the too alpha moment, I think she actually started to think I was her bf without bringing up any sort of chats, showing her cat her...

I had made another tread about this but not all the information was correct, and also wanted to give the whole story. Sorry for the long post. I met a girl 3 months ago, she is 18, I am 28. Things were going great. I gamed her well until this point. Push/pull, texting was 60/40 with her...

Giving an update as people have been asking - I sent a message today, there have been a few back and fourth, just asking how her weekend was, she said she was studying (she was actually in the city with her friends, I wonder if she lied so that it didnt seem like she was blowing me off, or...

You might have hit the nail on the head, and by going ghost I could be ruining my chances, Ive been ghost one day so far, trying to figure out if I should text or not.

UPDATE - Ive seen on her social media shes in london right now with her girl friends having drinks... Ones she hasnt seen in a long time. I got blown off and possibly lied too. Its possible that she wasnt allowed to see me late and has made other plans, or its all been an excuse. She was...

We met exactly a week ago, we dont see eachother more than once (one time was twice a week). I didnt make a scene, I said it was fine, then left it at that, I said I can now lay in which is a good thing! Trying to be funny, she said ahah because you are the king (she calls me the king), we never...

Thanks for you reply. I dont really know what happend. In terms of disappearing for a few days, she's only ever texted first a few times, I think she might be old fashioned in this sense, I didnt text her for 4 days until I had to, to find out what was going on with the play. I judge her IL on...