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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Woldve prefered not to have known man kills me to think about it
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    she has issues with her dad, deffo think she is bpd, she messed with the other guy too, deleted a photo of her and him and uploaded of a gift I gave her, then deleted my gift and put her pic with him up again. Seems like she loves to mess guys up. proper was loving me for the first 3 months then...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    she started seeing someone else when we had been going out for 3 months, she then came back to me, I didnt know what I had happened between them or what the full story was, then one day I took her out for dinner and she was talking about him, talked about how they had arguments about using...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Completed day 30 of NC yesterday, only time she reached out was to say happy new year... I was feeling angry about the way I was treated over chirtsmas, how she tried to purposely hurt me, and when we got back together how she would just start talking about f*cking this other guy she left me for...
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    Buying a bottle of wine for going round?

    Right I think this ones done, didnt want to see her tonight so said lets do tomorrow. She said she couldnt do tomorrow, there was no counter offer, I then said, I could do tonight but only at 8, she said she had to skype an old friend at 9 so to let her know at around 8 and she's see, I said...
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    Buying a bottle of wine for going round?

    I messaged: "This game has been staring at me the whole time, Im going to teach you to play!" she replied straight away: "are you free tonight? Im knackered from work!!" I was thinking of saying im busy tonight (im actually free), I dont want to seem too available, but tomorrow? and asking if...
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    When a woman is interested, she'll do ANYTHING to make things happen

    Had the same thing with a girl I was dating for 4 months with the happy new year text. Also ignored. Definitely fishing for attention, and wanting to see if they can draw you in.
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    Buying a bottle of wine for going round?

    Hit it while its hot as in message her? I haven't set up the date yet, made a mistake of messaging new years two days ago, seeing if she would give me a vibe of going round that night, so i've initiated 4 times, shes initiated 2, waiting a bit to see if she chases or was going to message in 1 or...
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    Buying a bottle of wine for going round?

    I dont drink at all and she knows that
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    Buying a bottle of wine for going round?

    Thanks. Any other opinions from others on the situation?
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    That long? We only went out for 4 months, last month was very rocky. she has lots of options, i want some sex
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yesterday she text me 3 times after roughly 2 weeks, messages went: Her: hey caramel (nickname she used to give me) happy new year! 5 mins later: why have you not been texting me? 25 mins later: come on... dont be a bastard on new years eve I want to see if I can turn this into a fwb, shes...
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    Buying a bottle of wine for going round?

    Hi, Ive been on two dates with a plate and on the second I ended up going back to her place, totally her idea, we didnt have sex or kiss yet... but she has been giving hints at me coming round for the 3rd date round there, playing board games, watching a "scary" tv series on netflix. My...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 10 of NC. I was with the girl for 4 months. The first 3 months were great, she would buy me gifts, kino me, make time for me, could not sleep before seeing me, wished she could see me everyday. I played with her emotions, I would not speak to her for days. She started seeing someone else...
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    When She Goes Cold (but you did everything right)

    Even if you do everything right, women are fickle. The emotions they had for you one minute, may not be the same the next. They have an abundance mentality and have options, a new guy who has come in to her life may be too intriguing to say no to. In my experience when a girl has gone cold its...
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    After 3 months shes gone cold

    6th day of NC. I am beating myself up about everything, it is my fault that this didnt work out, what I am beating myself up most about is that I didnt sleep with her. I have a date tonight and another date with someone else on Monday.
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    After 3 months shes gone cold

    what do you mean?
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    After 3 months shes gone cold

    Update - We started seeing each other again, it had become like old times, we were making out and she was kinoing me, hand in hand, head in my chest, she would give me good night texts with love hearts. She asked me to get her flowers the next time I saw her, I didnt do this. Then yesterday I...
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    One of the biggest signs of high interest level is when she says this....

    Can someone list some actions which show that a woman is interested in you?
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