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your self-doubt post kinda goes along w/ my confidence posts. in the 2nd once, it tells you what you need to do to gain confidence (aka- get rid of self doubt) check out the links in my sig.

ya, cuz in a car, you should keep ya eyes on the road as much as possible

Was in a 6 month relationship w/ a girl. Then she dumped me. For 7 months, I was sad, depressed, pissy, a complete and utter AFC (actually probably worse). My ex breaking up w/ me then was like the nail in the coffin for me at the time, because I had a lot of other issues going on. My best...

w/ a shy type of girl, and after 3 months def. show her some more affection. dont bend over backwards 4 her, buy her flowers, or call her all the time. but w/ a shy girl, you need to do random acts of kindness pretty often, cuz it builds up thier self esteem,a nd pulls them outta thier shy shell

wow, i just hopped on the boards today, and omg, crap! i know this has been going on forever, but i couldnt believe how much was on the site today. i took about 5 days of the boards, and giving advice for the holidays. now i'm back- and disgusted. but hey- i'm here to offer valuable advice to...

gotta be careful. i had a girl friend want to set me up w/ a friend of a friend of hers- that girl was ugly as fvck. i mean, no guy would want her. maybe it was a joke on their part- or somethign i dunno- but i gave my friend hell for it. haha

how old are you guitar? cuz by now you should be able to tell the diff. b/t a cell # and a home # i.e. where i live home nums start w/ either 431, 254, 256, 271, + more depending on what city in the Dayton area you live in. cell phone # have weird starting digits, like 760, 271, 272...

soma- very true. that is some good sh!t. just wanna be careful w/ that bad pic that you give them. cuz they might be totally turned off to talking to you. unless you charm her w/ words n stuff b4 you exchange pics sapphire- also very true. you could be "the perfect guy," and yet in a crowd...

i've broken through the shy barrier. she was they type of girl you wanna take home to meet mommy. too much work to keep it together, and i didnt want a LTR or even STR- although i thought i did. too much trouble... that's why i ask "how much is she worth it to you?"

how much is she worth it to you?

i be myself, and that is a huge success

good to hear these success stories. it lets us know that the stuff we say actually helps! good luck to ya bud!

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i see where you are coming from w/ the dee-zy, and it is a good point, but i have to disagree. what if you do have your sh!t together, and you are a true DJ (in your eyes)? plus- it takes one to know one. all DJ's have been AFC at one point in their lives (at least). so they all know the...

i've been there buddy. ya times are tough. but you gotta get through them. it's good that you are taking the first steps in realizing that you know you have a problem, and seeking help about it. feel free to pm me if you have any questions regarding anything. cuz i changed my whole life for...

good insight. i agree w/ the general opinion tho. and you get her number!

check out the confidence threads i made. look in my sig.

i said this in another thread earlier today, but i'll say it again. my 2 cents: cold approaches are done best when you have EC w/ the chick. for me, i cant do a good cold approach w/o having EC w/ her. exactly right one-on-one. what are you going to say to some random girl taht hasnt even...

tactic. this is outta fvcking nowhere. if anyone needs to learn to be a DJ it's you. dont make a new thread posting your gripes about other people- if you got probs w/ it, then pm them. dont fill up the board w/ bs threads like this. i've been here awhile, and i've seen all the bs that comes...

that's why IMO, and when I game, i only approach chicks who i've had EC w/ b4. i mean, i can do cold approaches pretty decent, but I like to establish EC 1st. makes things a lil bit easier