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As a matter of interest is she eastern european? If not where are you, and she, from?

Good fecking story Desdinova and I couldnt agree more with your strategy. The thing that really gets me the most, is that in a situation like yours, she will still try for the pity emotion. I have done and will do the same - cut her off, leave her to do everything on her own and delete her from...

Ive done several improv classes (and other very social type stuff that is similar). Its REALLY good, I highly recommend you try it out. Improve is good because it doesnt involve too much technical or rigid style of learning. Everyone is on the same page and you get to have fun. Low stress and...

Make them dress up as a clown and perform a show for you. Thats real luuuuuv.(Britney did it...).

OP - Theres some sound advice for you here. IMO I believe you have or are developing, oneitis. Be honest with yourself. Personally I would never reward her behaviour with a 'planned meeting, and would NOT supplicate, apologise or even agree with her. She has then got you where she wants you...

Absolutely not! That dialogue is the last thing you should do - you must seize the moment. You will tell her how it will be from now on. Don't be aggressive, but be strong. Don't just let her talk. Don't nod your head (that's supplicating) Don't see how things go Have a game plan eg, From now...

OP - and this ^^^ is so true. Frame needs to be maintained in a strong manner.

You increased her IL so well done there. You did the right thing IMO on that part. Now the next part - If you think you could develop Oneitis or become AFC, you have to maintain a frame that prevenets that happening. If you touch either of those topics, you are going to screw this up. Have you...

Op, reading your post I wonder, in this instance, if your text wasn't slightly - confusing? I read over it a few times and Im thinking she may see this as your way only to get into her pants. A teaser/surprise txt from you to her is all good - but she may be unsure of accepting. Remember girls...

No. The only way to control a BPD is to run. Remove yourself from the situation completely and ignore her. That is the 'control.' If you stay, anywhere around them, you are feeding them. And they will keep eating until your shrivelled husk blows away in the wind. Amen.

"New friends are like silver, old friends are like gold" never a truer word said. Sometimes when we are on the road to self improvement, popping those red pills, MGTOW etc etc, we actually can lose sight of the truer meanings in life. I've been where you are and I've also done some decent self...

You can't control her behaviour while she's away and you may not find out about what went on during her trip away. That being the case you can either investigate, carry on, leave (drastic) or maybe just ask her and gauge her reaction. I myself wouldn't want to make a big deal out of it, but I...

Fck that BPD sheer hell. I'm similar to you OP in regards to inner strength and the ability to walk - but I got had and I admit it. Those were some dark days. Glad you got to add that to your life experience. You're not out of the woods yet though, trust me.

Can you post the channel(s) you're talking about?

I've had exes seek closure years after we have parted. It's taken me by surprise and has shown that she never really forgets. As to whether you should give or offer closure, my mind is still not made ups frankly it would depend on her manner, behaviour and the way she treated myself and others.

Yes and it is def the difference a woman's odour has, due to her pheromones. Although if she doesn't shower longer than a few days, the, erm, odour can become unpleasant!

I feel like boiling my head in a vat of oil, after reading OPs repeated BS. You have oneitis and you cannot seem to change your frame. Just lap up that cunny cream while its in front of you, then come back to the forum for more advice when she slides her cootch away from you. We'll be here with...

But youve only known this woman for a matter of DAYS! Days, my friend. Not months, or years. You had o n e (itis) date - you spoke briefly via txt after that before it all 'blew up.' Cant you see that you were over invested and needy. You need to take a look at that. Youre young and have...

Posted in Mature forum, but def worth a watch for all. Mod - apologies if cross posting isnt allowed, but this video is gold... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/brilliant-and-i-mean-f_cking-brilliant-take-down-of-feminism-by-a-queer.229753/

This is absolutely fantastic. I dont care if this guy has flaming hair and tight pink jeans - he speaks well and makes solid and valid points... I might cross link to the general discussion forum. Its that good.