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  1. HeadLightsOn

    Should my potential GF know about this site?

    I believe the consensus is (drum roll...) - shut up and keep it for the boys.
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    Having Kids=Loose Vag?

    BVS or Big Vagina Syndrome, is a great comeback at chicks who like to try and de masculate men on their penis size. It will silence them on the spot. But anyway I digress, it is true in my experience. A c section is def the way for a woman to go, if she wants to keep her purse tight. Colleagues...
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    Orbiters: It's a RESPECT issue, not a trust issue

    I'll throw a counter opinion in here. I have had very very close long term female friends, one in particular. Strictly platonic, made easier as she's not my type. Know her family, hang out etc. It's been this way for many years. Her current and exes haven't had issues as I am seen (and am) a...
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    Girl gone weird

    She is no longer into you, at least this minute. My belief is that you can't make her IL rise to what it was before - at least right at this moment. I would be upfront if I was going to text her - which you still are: " Seems like you have a bit going on right now. No drama, do what you have...
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    Approaching girls with: "hey you, do you think i'm good looking?"

    Dont wear sunglasses. The eyes are the window to the soul, as they say. Women will want to see your eyes to give their opinion. Good idea, would be interesting to hear your results.
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    Girls are opportunists

    P1ss off 'Certs.'
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    A sh!t test that 99% of women will give you

    I had a similar one recently. Close gurl and I were talking about me wanting to do some nude photography (no, really). Anyway she said "you wont be photographing ME nude." I said "Not YOU, theres no chance of that." The look on her face was priceless. I never said another word and in fact she...
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    BF tried to start a fight with me

    Op. While I agree with the other posts about not fighting over a wh0re, I would have still done what you did. I get sick of todays society saying 'think about court' and 'you couldve gotten injured' etc. Screw that. Why cant guys just be guys and have some balls? I think you going to meet him...
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    Any thought on my approach and number close guys!

    Ugh Dutch women - Ive experienced them in Holland. Very masculine and bolshy. I recall a Dutch HB9 once at a club. I asked for her number (after some banter) and she said "no but Ill take yours" and toke her phone out. I replied "sorry I dont give my number out to women. I wouldve taken yours...
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    Down period. Tinder help needed.

    Tried to search and got this: Fatal error: Allowed memory size of 33554432 bytes exhausted (tried to allocate 1048576 bytes) in /home/sos36net/public_html/forum/search.php on line 1057
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    BPD X not acting out with new boyfriend

    This is it right here ^^^ The abandonment aspect for them is the main one IMO and NEVER leaves them. Its actaully very sad, even though they consume men like locusts in a cornfield. It was one of the biggest learning curves in my dating career.
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    Read This If You're "Missing" Your BDP

    For those on here who have experienced a BPD or at the least an ex who had BPD like tendencies, they will know what OP is talking about. Never a truer word spoken. And as far as my story goes - BPD ex just contacted me about what's going on in her life. She's married now. Still contacts me, even...
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    There are times when it's OK to cheat

    Holy crap this post seems to have a very 'white knight-ish' feel to it. First 'cheating' needs to be defined. Second Everything is not black and white Third (TicTac) Some people stay in a so called committed relationship for different reasons even if the nest is dry and the love has flown...
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    It happens to the best of us... (cheating)

    HAHAHA this is so true, and so damn funny. Of course WE all know monogamy is at the very least, dull. But then this topic has been debated extensively on SS. Good point though JTA.
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    Signs that a women is mentally unstable?

    Ditto. The red flags that I now know about keep me far away from any BPD type beetch. I'm glad I learned a harsh lesson from previous experience. Makes it simple to spot them now. Love/attention bombing by them is one of the biggest red flags to me. Be very cautious.
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    FR: Double Booked on a Saturday Night...here we go!

    Isn't this woman's SMV low due to her situation and kids? She sure seems to be playing hard to get for a girl in her situation. And she thought OP that you might just want her for sex? No sh1t Sherlock! Sounds like a lot of hard work for a low possible return. The ROI on this investment doesn't...
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    Did I fvck up or did I make the right decision?

    Go to Russia. She'd be lucky to make a HB6 on the streets there. It's cheaper for you to fly there, bang (and you will bang), drink some good vodka, and piss off back home. Plus you dont have to get married - ever! Ive spent a lot of time in Eastern Europe - Trust me, this girl is average at...
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    Clingy girls...your take on them?

    My experience and evolution with females like this is: Clingy Annoying Creepy Screwed up Mind f ck's Cluster B BPD Suck you dry leaving a husk Not quite but you get the picture. Bail out now.
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    Girlfriend said she wants to "talk about us"

    ^^ I agree with this actually. A very brief non butt hurt text THEN go NC. Best of both worlds.
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