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This situation confused me. I know this forum is pretty hit and miss with the advice but this girl is weird. First of all, met her in JUNE (it's almost mid-AUGUST now) with her now-ex-possessive friend. She had high interest in me, sharing food, eyes glazed over. Anyways, she said it was her...

Hrm, not sure what gave you the impression I use exclamation points in text from how I wrote above..? I do use the occasional smiley but not ten. "Happy text" meant I didn't take her disappearances or inconsistent replies to heart, positive vibes, etc. Anyhoo, I haven't texted her since I asked...

So this girl invited me over for drinks from online dating after a 10 minute conversation. I grabbed the Hennessey (sp) from the local store and some apple juice (her suggestion). She is 22, I am 34. I got there as soon as I could. She seemed to be very interested in me, asking all kinds of...

I believe I have improved. Got married, survived a BPD disaster, barely avoided jail and didn't go insane (much). The other night though.. walked into the bar solo unintentionally, opened 4 different groups after being in the gym earlier, flirted with said-girl, got lots of IOI's from her...

Oh, of course I spent 16 years not approaching girls as you seem to think. I have improved and realized that extremism and ego-satiation is not the way to go. You might learn one day and hopefully mature because you have already lost the game by losing your self-control brah.

I had my hopes this forum had improved in my hiatus but apparently not.

This is all bull****. I have girls walking by me that look at the ground, a girl that has been chasing me for like 15 years, etc. I went after a 8/10 and she knows a lot of people in my hometown and where she moved to. If you want to ruin your reputation amongst many people, go ahead. Burning...

You see, I used to think this way. But it comes across as bitter and James Bond would be unphased and not remove a girl from Facebook. #asanexample. To remove a girl from Facebook appears to me as if I care too much about whether she rejected me or not. It looks weak to me and -- from what I...

I'm not trying to necessarily orbit this girl. I asked for her number in person, she rejected me. I kept my cool and was classy and left. I figured I would be a bigger loser if I stopped communication altogether, at least on her wall. I do not message her directly because I can see that being...

I would be interested in hearing what others thought about what went down. My buddy who said he would "be there" and really hyped up helping me never showed. I really let him know how ****ty that was. I showed up at the end of the second girl's act and just managed to catch the girl I liked for...

Yeah, I usually don't go and meet someone at their event. I did once and the girl was really bottom-heavy and nasty. I was glad she was never around to hangout and started to flake on a simple 2nd date. It sounds bad but I wanted to get back into going on dates. The tickets aren't free. They...

I appreciate all the replies so far. Still recovering from the shock of being single again. My plan was to flirt with her and see if she shows interest. Attend her event with a buddy, have a good night out and if anything happens, that's great. If not, at least I finally tried to meet her and...

I don't have her number yet. After replying to her posts on social media, I moved away to asking her about the tickets directly over Facebook. But the conversation just stopped after I said I would be there. Usually I try to build rapport first so it feels weird going for the number without her...

So were you married to a BPD...? Anulment usually isn't enough to void a marriage in Canada. If it is contested, then it can easily take 6 months to a year. I don't think she can afford it... and I refuse to pay for half of it. Should be interesting to see what happens.

I was told a past ex had changed by her and she wanted to marry me more than anything before the end of last year. We had been dating on and off for almost 7 years now. Got married in February of this year, now 5 months later she wants a divorce. She literally escalated, raised her voice to...

It's been said before, but I think a real Don Juan can let any girl go and walk away from any situation that is not in his best interests.

I used to chase and it never got me the girl. Does that help? :)

Anyone who calls themselves a "sexpert" screams AFC.

Erm, doesn't watching pornography raise testosterone levels?

Do you want to date this girl or compete with her?