GuitarOnFire
Senior Don Juan
I was told a past ex had changed by her and she wanted to marry me more than anything before the end of last year.
We had been dating on and off for almost 7 years now. Got married in February of this year, now 5 months later she wants a divorce. She literally escalated, raised her voice to stupid levels of loudness, turned around and assaulted me. I accidentally swung my fist back once and she (or her friend) called the cops on me. They essentially warned me but still filed a report, saying the next time we would both go to jail if it happens again AND one of us had to move out (pretty sure cops can't do that though!!!).
Wife has only had me as a stabilizer for years. Her parents should be retired but cannot afford to. For some reason, they spent a stupid amount of money renovating their home when they could not afford it... ! So there is no savings left, from what I have been told. They could honestly one or both die and my wife would barely have any money to continue functioning. The concept of her moving out and living in apartment when she has a contract until MARCH 2017 to live here with me is insane.
Honestly, I think she will hate living with her (female) family friend again in a few weeks and realize how good she had it here. I am a SUPER CHILL guy and have never hit her before, even though she has tried to hurt me now 4x with her fists in 7 years and apparently hit her OWN MOM by her own word at least twice when she lived with them. No wonder they don't want her moving back there...
Some rational thoughts please on how to move forward. I cannot move out and she has taken me off of Facebook. We are still married so I cannot really 'Go out and **** bitches' or anything.
We had been dating on and off for almost 7 years now. Got married in February of this year, now 5 months later she wants a divorce. She literally escalated, raised her voice to stupid levels of loudness, turned around and assaulted me. I accidentally swung my fist back once and she (or her friend) called the cops on me. They essentially warned me but still filed a report, saying the next time we would both go to jail if it happens again AND one of us had to move out (pretty sure cops can't do that though!!!).
Wife has only had me as a stabilizer for years. Her parents should be retired but cannot afford to. For some reason, they spent a stupid amount of money renovating their home when they could not afford it... ! So there is no savings left, from what I have been told. They could honestly one or both die and my wife would barely have any money to continue functioning. The concept of her moving out and living in apartment when she has a contract until MARCH 2017 to live here with me is insane.
Honestly, I think she will hate living with her (female) family friend again in a few weeks and realize how good she had it here. I am a SUPER CHILL guy and have never hit her before, even though she has tried to hurt me now 4x with her fists in 7 years and apparently hit her OWN MOM by her own word at least twice when she lived with them. No wonder they don't want her moving back there...
Some rational thoughts please on how to move forward. I cannot move out and she has taken me off of Facebook. We are still married so I cannot really 'Go out and **** bitches' or anything.
