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It could be nervousness or that she just doesn't have good conversation skills. If the conversation hangs, as it sometimes does, just end it on a positive note and go on your way. Nothing is worse than having two people just standing there not saying anything. :)

It's largely genetic. I suggest choosing between weight-lifting and cardio from now onwards, though. It sounds like you're doing too much exercise. More sleep should help, too. Good luck!

Train your body first and then train your mind. Start working-out regularly and lean towards over-training rather than under-training /but/ use common sense and be careful.

Girls can actually tell who is the most alpha in the room through the way you carry yourself, facial expression, voice tonality, as well as who you speak to. A fellow poster here once suggested that they can even sense testosterone levels, which may actually be true. To each their own, really...

True. It is hard to find guys that are openminded about this stuff. Once you do find someone decent that you can train and go sarging with, odds are your success rate will soar.

No girl wants a pushover. If you start letting her getting away with disrespect and not draw the line, you're giving away your own sense of self-respect for her validation.

Less complaining, less oneitis and more field reports and experience. Too many of the people here don't put the golden advice into practice.

Hmm. Try asking her out on a one-on-one date and do a kiss close.

You're coming across as either insecure or wimpish. Why are you listening to her stories anyways?

If she's acting weird, you might be making some mistakes (or have already made some). Not always the case, though. @ Potbelly: Nice. :D

She should bring it up.

What? This is IMO horrible advice. It may be intoxicating for the woman to have a guy fawning over her, but it certainly won't lead to a second or third date if the man supplicates. Pay attention to the girl, but don't replace the waiter at the restaurant! There is nothing wrong with being the...

You are placing the blame on her surroundings rather than on her. This seems to give her the wrong impression that she still has a chance. I suggest being blunter still: I like you as a sister/friend. Having sex with you would be like incest. You have no chances on ever hooking up with me...

Good post. Confidence is probably the key to being a DJ. With confidence comes self-control and charm eventually.

She threw a shot at you? That's grounds for a break-up in my books.

Why are you chasing her? If ALL the other guys are chasing her, how do you expect to stand out from the crowd? She plays hard to get means you disappear like a ninja and let her chase you down. Right now you're being a Non-Juan.

****blocked. It happens when one girl wants to protect the other girl from being picked-up.

Okay. I now know that she's been in a few bad relationships and is currently in a 'pretty good' one. If she wants me, it's because she wants attention or is thinking about ditching her current boyfriend.

Is she a HB8.0+? From my experiences, if she wants to take it slow, she has options.

I was getting IOI's (compliments, usually lightens up when she sees me, she starts all the conversations) the last time I saw a girl, indicating high interest. We've never actually talked or had a proper conversation (ie. her interests, where she lives, etc.). I figure that she is shy and...