what do you do when she plays very hard too get?

MKS82

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wtf do you do when a girl does this and you get some mixed signals. Let me first start off by saying that she has admitted this too me that she plays hard to get. Probably the reason why im chasing her somewhat sure other guys are too.

So this girl and i have been talking (not like everyday) maybe like once or twice a week for the last 1.5 months. I heard through the grape vine that she wanted my nuts pretty bad. So we have talked and hung out a couple of times. Everytime we hang out there is a sh*t load of kino. weve kissed also. i was in her bed one night but decided i didnt want to fvck her. Build up a tension loop.
1. Makes me look better than other guys out there who just jump at a girl the second they can have sex and so i dont look desperate.
2. Wanted to see what she would do or say. she said before i said anything exactly what i was trying to convey. That maybe we should get to know each other better.

Another thing to note is everytime I ask her out on a one on one date she reverts to us going out with her friend also (another girl) so im like whatever. probably cause shes not comfortable or something or just plain old shy.

Ive contacted her like 3-4 times in the last 2 weeks. everytime she is responsive never doesnt answer and always replies back. shes even like "on thursday im going out, you should come if you want."

Where is there a line between i like you but im hard too get and im not interested. Cause if she wasnt interested wouldnt she not say all this sh*t too me and not be responsive to me contacting her. I know i wouldnt even answer the phone.

This sh*t just bugs me cause im use to getting girls like her right away. I never fvck a girl the very first chance and ive done it a lot they usually go crazy. This girl is just playing too much or just not interested or she might not have the power to call up. Im just giong to ask her out tonight for the very last time. if we dont do anything im going to say well thats cool, take care and good luck. bye. cause thats bs that she can jock me hard and i show her interest back then act all flakey.
 

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why?? Im a challenge to girls also. Espically ones I want if i can get there first. i was at first to her. then she turned the tables so i need to turn them back.
 

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i did this also....i was on her bed talking to her and everthing and i just walked out...after that she just started liking me..but lately she's not even really talkn to me... i keep this girl off my mind by lookin at other girls... it's on and off with me in her though
 

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Why are you chasing her? If ALL the other guys are chasing her, how do you expect to stand out from the crowd?

She plays hard to get means you disappear like a ninja and let her chase you down. Right now you're being a Non-Juan.
 

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There's a fine line between playing hard to get and a class A attention w-hore! I think you've got the latter on your hands here. All girls will play games to a certain extent BUT once you've captured her interest she will chase you as long as you are a challenge to her. Right now your not doing any of that!!

-You've asked her out and she tries to bring her friend
-You always seem to be calling her.
-She invites you out only when theres other people there


This girl seems like she's a sunshine girl. She loves the attention she gets from you and the other 20 million swarm of followers she has, and that's about it. If you want to get this girl you need to disappear and be busy.
However I'll be the first to tell you if she truely is an attention w-hore nothing good will come out of this except for you learning a valuable lesson in which girls to like and which girls to fuvk.


PIMP
 

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She's not interested enough. FB or next!
 

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Give her one more shot, just ask her, what's going on here. Tell her you are interested but that if she's not you will leave her alone. At the same time make sure she knows that she is choosing between having you in her life on your terms and not having you in her life.

You can never truly be a friend to her because you are interested in more, therefore you would never act as a true friend to her. This is actually the explanation you can use with her as to why you will not remain friends with her. Trust me it works.
 

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i thought i did stand out from her cause i did not bone her the first chance i got. then she turned kind of weird after that. well anyways i really got to dissapear like a ninja now. i texted her last night when i was pretty messed up. I didnt express any feelings to her in a direct way. But i was like "i was going to ask u something. Do you want to come to my cousins wedding? if you would feel awkward thats understandable but if you come thatll be cool" so now i really gotta stop talking to her. i know shes an aw. shes almost exactly like my ex. thats why i dont really give a sh*t too much how i act around her. she was just around when i broke up with my ex a little bit ago.
 

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