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Hey Guys, Earlier this school year I was gaming like a true DJ. Meeting lots of chicks, hooking up a lot, making all the right moves. But lately I've been way off my game. Haven't hooked up in almost 2 weeks, having trouble getting the courage to talk/dance with chicks, and when I do, I've...

I would pursue your own interests and be great at what you do. Greatness is attractive to women, it really helps especially when trying to get those girls in the established social groups. For example, I recently got a radio show on my campus, and now I have a perfect thing to talk about with...

Okay, so how do you use your body to say "hey babeh lets have a good time!"?

You hit the nail on the head bro, that's exactly what happened. Everything else you said about women being unable to accept responsibility was dead on (in my experience at least) too. Profound stuff.

No I would definitely not say I'm not over her...Staying away from her would probably be the best thing because I don't want old emotions flaring up and getting in the way of my recovery.

You bring up some good points, but I think you misunderstand. Sure there is a part of me that wants to talk to her, but I know that part is a wuss and im trying to exterminate it. That's exactly why I started this thread; I had a feeling re-establishing contact would be a bad idea, and your...

Thanks man, that makes a lot of sense. This is the way i'm going to go.

Can you give some specific examples of the things they taught you? Not trying to mooch off their product, but it would be cool to get some tips...

I would try hitting up the party scene, as in non-greek parties to see if you can find girls there. Then definitely get involved in some extra-curriculars, those are the best ways to meet quality girls (depends on the activity). And always, make friends with girls so they can introduce you to...

All right, you guys basically affirmed what I was thinking. Despite my vague sense of guilt, no contact is still the best way to go. This is sort of complicated by the fact that she goes to my school now and has started befriending my friends... She's vigorously trying to insert herself back...

Hey guys, my main question is, should I end no contact and start talking to my ex again, because she is physically and emotionally a mess after our break up? We broke up around 2 months ago, and for the last half of our relationship she was battling an eating disorder and became extremely...

Im on day 15 and got laid last night. Not sure its because of not fapping, but definitely dont think it hurts. Stay strong guys, save yourselves for the real thing.

three weeks in and I must say I'm not feeling any of the withdrawals that others have mentioned...Fingers crossed though! Only going to nut during sex/ with a girl from now on :)

Pretty much what he said. I just broke up with my girlfriend of a year a couple weeks ago and I knew it would crush her. But it had to be done. Listen to your gut on whether you should do it or not, pick a good time, and promise yourself to follow through with it. It feels great once you get...

7 days in and feeling great....stay strong guys! :rockon:

I just recently broke up with my girlfriend as well. I broke up with her because I want to start seeing other women (kind of the opposite of your case). She was definitely more into me than I was into her. Like it was said in the movie "Ghosts of Girlfriends Past" the one who cares the least...

UPDATE Thanks for your advice guys. Just today I finally decided to end things between us. She is coming to my school next semester, but I feel that I did the right thing.

I got a few questions for you Jaedon, How did you become so comfortable with approaching girls, and how did you become so comfortable with being physical with girls before you hook up? Those are my two biggest problems.

Hey all, I've been lurking on this site for a while and I've decided its time I post. I'm in a LDR with a great girl, and the next time I'm going to spend time with her is in a month. We are in a closed relationship, so we are both staying loyal to each other. We have discussed the...