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  1. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I am always willing to help here brother, and I am glad that u found a woman who appreciates u and respects u utterly. As I said in June, what goes around comes around. And it came around brother,as for u, and as for me also. Exactly 6 months since my break up, and 5 months of NC, yesterday my...
  2. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thank you brother for ur time to reply to my post and give me an objective thinking from ur side. I am aware of the ego thing that is going on in my head but im trying my best to leave that aside. And yes, BPD women are hell ! Everything u said is true..
  3. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hello Guys, long time no see! Some of you might still remember me and my posts so you will know what i will talk about. So its almost 5 months since my break up and 4 months of complete No contact. She didn't try to reach me, nor did I. I don't know where to start...in these 5 months a lot...
  4. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @Carpathian Smashing other chicks doesn't cut it at ALL. But believing in yourself, constantly improving yourself and seeing yourself as the ultimate prize that she failed to receive will help eventually. Be strong doc, the people around you NEED YOU to be strong, and first and foremost u NEED...
  5. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    After some long time, yesterday my ex came into my dreams again. the dream was "great". Kissing, laughing and everything positive about us. But the dream was so real and somehow i knew that i was dreaming. So at the very end, before i wake up and before my ex leaves, i just stop her and tell to...
  6. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @BeTheChange Same here my brother. I reckon those break ups that lasted 2-3 days haha that sh!t is funny to me now, but it was those things that i should have known that they are bad for a relationship. Those were the signs that it just wasnt meant to be for us, or u.. I am off to Greece now...
  7. alex_in24

    Dating after a long time.

    Report us how it went. Good luck
  8. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @dude99 That could be a possibility of course. But it doesn't change anything now. It has no influence whatsoever. @BeTheChange On the other hand, it hurts more because I am very certain that once the emotions have cleared and the dust settled, on her side, she will look on this...
  9. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @BeTheChange Yes, i have been with her for 2 years. This is the first time that I bumped on her Instagram profile since the breakup since i strictly support and remain NC but there i go..I havent had a "down feeling" day since a month ago maybe..but today is that day. Understand me that...
  10. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @Carpathian I am not connected, suddenly a pic of her and her new Bf popped up although she is blocked. That;s how i found out...it kills me.
  11. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I woke up 10 mins ago. Literally all night I had dreams of my ex. Her getting back together with me, kissing laughing and all the "good" stuff that u can imagine. When i woke up, i didn't have that burning in the chest nor that nasty feeling in my stomach. I had..almost nothing felt. But there I...
  12. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @Carpathian @BeTheChange Yeah its very brutal, it fvcks our minds a lot. You are expecting to see her everytime u go out and thats killing us. Listen this funny anecdote about my ex. She has a boyfriend now as i told u yesterday. I know this guy. He used to come to the bar where me and my ex...
  13. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Same here bro, just 200 metres away from me she lives..
  14. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I've just seen my ex, literally just 10 mins ago walk by the bar i was sitting in. I am going to lie to u if i told u that i didnt feel anything. Had that burn in my chest but didnt last long, maybe a minute or two. And literally 5 mins before that,I gamed a milf, and she agreed to come over at...
  15. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    What happened ? Again day 1 ?
  16. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    And today is the day that i found out that my ex is officially now having a new boyfriend, she is in a relationship. 3 months exactly since the break up, and she is declaring love towards her new man on the social media. I found this spontaneously while scrolling on instagram. The neighbor...
  17. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    The last 2-3 days i am having dreams and flashbacks of our relationship, both good and bad ones. Overall i am happy, but honestly still thinkin bout her. I can catch myself searching and watching for her while i am on the streets. Thats it..
  18. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @Carpathian I feel you and I understand you completely. Although I am maybe the youngest sufferer here with almost 22 years on my a$$, believe me when i tell you that the pain that i feel is not imaginable. But I thank god everyday for this opportunity to feel this pain and grow from it. As...
  19. alex_in24

    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    86 DAYS SINCE BREAK UP, 63 DAYS No contact. Guys, Girls, fellow brothers and sisters...i've hit my 60 day NC mark. The reason why i waited 3 more days to post here, was simply because I really had things to do and i was busy. I decided to write chronologically since u will understand me...
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