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Yeah, that's exactly what stoicism is all about. To remain centered no matter what happens like u said, inside or outside of u. And i respect that and try to follow. But sometimes, u gotta let it go..either by crying, by drinking, by smoking, by punching the pillows etc etc. thats my way of...

You are welcomed to asked. If you apply the right amount of stoicism into ur life, u will have more benefits that losses in every aspect in life. Being stoic, to me is a missing link that every human on earth needs to have. Being stable, standing firm on the ground while it's shaking, thinking...

I understand and totally accept your suggestion. It may have sounded like i am concentrating and focusing my love only towards her , but i try not to do that believe me. You mentioned the word Stoic. I support Stoicism, A LOT believe me. And yeah, maintaining frame, being stable, having self...

What i meant was, i will try to live in the moment while still loving her. I will progress, i will work on me, i will do whatever it takes to make myself a better man, EVEN if that includes a force driven by my love towards her. I will try to overemphasize these emotions of love,hate,anger,loss...

@dustmuffin I understand that completely...but ever since she liked that pic, i dont know why, but something woke up inside me. Like some kind of hope that she still loves and cares about me. It is very hard to have a battle against yourself. Brain vs Heart. I know whats right and i know whats...

I know that right. I found way better girls these 2 months believe me. And i am generally very happy. But i still keep wondering why did she like my pic and unliked it later ?? was that on purpose or she was just stalking and accidentally liked it.. ? What does that even mean ? Also she is...

This morning i had a dream about my ex...i woke up and checked my phone, guess what ? She was stalking my instagram profile and accidentally liked one of my pics. She unliked it later. I maintained frame, laughed a lil bit and continued with my life, no reaction from me whatsoever :)

Wow. Astonishing answer, bravo !

38 NC DAY / 62 days since break up Guys, guys, guys... Honestly i dont feel a need to write here anymore, but i feel an obligation to tell you what i've been up to the past week or so, since i havent wrote here that long.. Don't know where to start..the past 5 days, i was in Budva, Montenegro...

@Fireballs I know that feeling bruh, sometimes i think also that way. But your mind is playing tricks with you and is testing you if you are strong and man enough to take over your emotions and control them. Its just a way for your body to release the toxins. Keep on the fight, keep the...

Day 29 NC Probably the worst day this week, or this month, maybe year. And i take full responsibility for my actions. My parents found my weed. Yeah...I smoke occasionally and i got busted today. Luckily, applied my red pill knowledge here. I held the god damn FRAME. And yeah, convinced...

@Fireballs Do what it takes so u can feel better, if that means going to the gym at 5am, then go at 5 am. As for me, im on day 28 NC, 52 days since break up. So as u can see, almost 2 months have passed since we broke up. I rarely think about her, maybe 2 times a day the most. Stopped...

@finality Alright i listened to u and sent her this: Hey beautiful, this is the guy from the juice bar. I was asking myself if anything interesting happened to u yesterday or i was the main surprise of the day ? Waiting for reply now, keeping u updated.

Alright long story short, yesterday I made eye contact with a beautiful blonde HB9 and it was during daytime coffee. I gave her that sexy look and a very flirting smile and she smiled back. 3 mins later she went to the bathroom as we were sitting in a coffee bar. I immediately stood up and went...

@LiveYourDream You are totally right. Being stoic, keeping frame, and moving happily on makes me a MAN. She is the one that should be ashamed of herself. As for today...i think it is day 26 or 27 or maybe 28 of NC..but that is not what i am going to talk about. Today i think that I lived for...

I'm definitely changing the gym. Got 5 more days till my card is valid, and im changing it after that.

Day 25 NC Feeling pretty well this morning. I wouldn't have come here to post this at all but as i opened my browser, SoSuave came up so..there we are. Last night I was out with some old friends. We had a great night, spoke to some chicks with this friend of mine, didnt actually made out with...

Dude if u are still fvcking ur ex, believe me, ur not over her no matter what u say to yourself. U mentioned u got some new girl going on. You want to mess that up because of ur ex ?? Think about it for a second. Or just make a decicison what u really want. This hot and cold game u are playing...

I hope and believe we do. At the end of the day, god damn we are MEN. We are the dominant force in this god damn world.

Day 24 Not gonna lie. I feel sad. I miss her. I miss her laughter, miss her stupid jokes, miss her stupid face. Had a dream this morning, me and her laying in bed, she got her arms around me with one leg over my body. She was kissing me softly as i was laying there and just embracing the...