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Day 59 wohoooo Alright guys, won't say much, i'm saving my final thoughts and words for tomorrow so u can read a quite deep and big post of mine. Just wanted to encourage all the men and women here on the forum to continue pursuing the 60 day goal since for me it has done quite amazing things.

@Glassguy Bro, u got to the point where u dont even want her to chase you. U are totally indifferent now, and thats why u wont even bother or stress yourself out over writing that "thank you" reply message. But believe me when I tell u this, please dont reply, i know that u will still be...

If u aint replying like "b1tch i aint fvcking with you", then dont even bother replying at all. Trust us on this one, u will feel a lot better when u realize that she is the one chasing after u now, and u dont give a sh1t.

Day i dunno what day and i dont care Just got back home from an epic first date. Life is good. Be happy

Day 56 NC Woke up with the smell of the linden trees that are just beneath my window. Oh god, the smell reminds me so much of her. Can't help myself but think of the times when we were at the park, chasing and fooling around. The last friday I was at the club with my cousin and some friends. I...

All men and women are very tempted when it comes to receiving a text from their loved ex. But very few endure that temptation and hold frame. I know it's hard. I know that feeling in ur chest when u read that email or that sms or that incoming call. But believe me people, the feeling that u...

That's the thing with BPD women. Literally one day you are the best thing that has ever happened in her life, and the next day the hypergamy kicks in and forgets about u in a matter of seconds. I broke up on 25 march this year and I am doing pretty well honestly. I fought with a lot of...

@S. Aureus Don't give her that satisfaction of being you friend. She doesn't deserve you. End of story. DAY 54 here..

@Carpathian Brother, thats why i told u, to cut out all communication with her. No matter how smart and rational we are , the hope of her coming back to us will wake up again. No matter what we speak to ourselves, the joy of her grieving over us is still present in our minds. But believe me...

@Carpathian You are seeking a logical explanation that simply doesn't exist. There is no logic behind one womans mind. With all due respect to the women in this community, both of the genders know that as a fact! As for her reaching out after 10 weeks of NC...that wasn't about you pal, it...

@finality Wow, how quick time passes huh ? DAY 50 here

NC DAY 45+ i think.. As soon as i woke up today i had a strange feeling. Like something was about to happen. Bla bla bla fast forward, i went to the gym. Waited for my cousin there for about 20 mins and we had a workout together. I finished earlier so i told him that i had to go home to clean...

@BlueAlpha1 I can find myself in ur story. My ex is also a hard case of BPD and I broke up after 2 yrs of LTR. How do u find yourself healing from the break up ? What's been good to you and what has been not ?? Has she tried to call or contact u ? What are your thoughts about BPD girls ???

@Glassguy I knew u would understand me :) @BlueAlpha1 I completely understand you. My ex was a heavy case of BPD. These kind of people (including BPD men) are very tough to understand and live with. U will never know what is going in her mind. Its just simple as that. She may be happy for a...

@LiveYourDream I appreciate ur kind words and care for me. Yes, i feel more free than i was. But that's all i feel right now. Freedom. And as for her moving forward ? I really wish for her to move forward and NEVER come to me begging for mercy. I don't want revenge, nor begging to take her...

Hm...i got that rush of adrenaline in my veins and chest the moment i saw her. But i knew what to do, stayed focused and calm, gave her a wink and turned my head back and continued talking with my friend. As u know me, from my previous posts and our honest conversation, i am going to tell u the...

NC DAY 45 i think.. I've just seen my ex pass by, while i was with my female friend sitting in the coffee bar. My ex doesnt know about this friend, so she might have assumed that the friend was actually a plate of mine. We had eye to eye contact with my ex, and i played it in the most alpha way...

Buddy, u lasted a year without contact. A year without her, a year where u focused on only developing yourself. I am sure that the bday is triggering your emotions and the dreams are consequences from those emotions and thoughts. In the past, she was there for you for your bday, but now shes...

Did u reply to her ??

44 NC Day Few nights in a row, i'm having dreams about my ex. I'm trying to be stoic, to understand that, in order to detoxicate myself, dreams are a natural process that must happen. But as soon as i wake up, i'm starting to think about her and miss her honestly. I feel some kind of urge, to...