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    Married woman that's unhappy? Is this common? :P

    shes acting like a guy. she was horny, she wanted kawk, yours didn't work. she probably went home thinking ' F*CK! I wanted kawk. wtf was wrong with that guy." most chics DON'T think this way - but this chic is a grad A wh*remonger. she has zero remorse for cheating on her husband and...
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    Lost feeling of being single.

    you watch the tv show lost? everyone wants off the island, but when they get off the island some of them want to get back on the island. thats what being single is like. when your single you want to be attached, when your attached being single doesn't look so bad. the reality is that...
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    My Story

    those who hurt us the most also make us stronger. the women who tear your heart out are also the women who handed you the key to unlock your cell and escape the matrix. and its then that you realize that ultimately they didn't cause your pain - you caused your pain by deluding yourself...
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    Is this a crazy way to run your marriage?

    this article is like listening to George Bush talk about energy efficiency while at the same time being in the back pocket of the oil companies. while 99% of what this guy says makes sense, ultimately he's a total hypocrite. he trashes women but then talks about how he basically acts...
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    Settling for less is a default

    heres the thing. the comments people were telling you are true. there is no such thing as a dream job - its a FALLACY. but let me explain. if you do ANYTHING for 40-60 hours a week its going to wear on your nerves. maybe not the first week, but by week 50 it will. If you had to f*ck...
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    Lessons learned from a sailor

    what you will find in life is that there is no destination. we are all just being carried along by the sea. some of us learn to master the current more than others and enjoy the 'journey' more than others - but ultimately we all end up at the same destination. so yes, if you are going to...
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    Obsession

    the word love is like the word God - everyone uses it but hardly anyone knows anything about it and no two people have the same definition of it.
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    Great Girl. She's pregnant

    the first thing you need to do is go and get a baseball bat. got it? ok, good. now i want you to hit yourself in the head with it. WHAT THE F*CK IS WRONG WITH YOU HAVING SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM? the primary reason for abortion in this situation is that do you really think its fair to pass...
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    Love is extremely powerful

    heres the thing... its very easy to confuse 'love' with 'neediness'. being able to 'love' is essential in life. but don't ever confuse 'love' with co-dependency or being a wimp or a 'nice' guy etc. a MAN can love and not become dependent on the thing he loves. women LOVE this. what women...
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    Dealing with aggressive women

    you can never take one behavior and deduce the whole of a person. some women are highly sexual and highly functional also. whereas some are highly sexual and highly dysfunctional. always weigh the totality of a person before coming to a final conclusion. but when a woman is overly...
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    Dealing with aggressive women

    ok, i've had this situation a number of times and screwed it up before just like you did. :) this chic would have made the perfect f*ck buddy. she would never have made a good girlfriend though. this chic thinks like a man - chics like this are awesome. she just wants to cut through all the...
  12. J

    Break or End?

    ok, first you need to identify the real problem. in this scenario it could be one of two things (or both) 1) its NOT the fact that she calls you that is annoying. whats annoying is that the two of you don't seem highly compatible - as such, when you are stressed, talking to her annoys you. if...
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    Need to change venues, but don't know where

    most 'indy' folks - who LOOK indy and live indy - especially if they are over 25, tend to live in downtown metro regions. 'subcultures' always congregate in the large cities. if you live out in the suburbs it gets really uncomfortable (I would imagine) being one of the few people with green...
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    Goals - Overrated?

    should we eat healthy or should we just eat? its all about balance. if all you eat is rice and chicken breasts, day in and day out, year after year, eating will become extremely unfun. but if you just eat mcdonalds day in and day out, you'll die at 45. so its about balance. eat...
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    Maybe it's not so hard to find the "one"

    you can only know what you know. unless you are mature, you don't know what maturity looks like. unless you are kind, you don't know what kindness looks like. unless you are ethical, you don't know what ethical looks like. the biggest problem for 99% of the men out there is that because they...
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    Do we really need women for anything other than sex?

    exactly. there's a famous quote by Nietzsche that goes something like "should not the giver be thankful to receiver for receiving?' whereas traditional thinking is that the person receiving should be thankful to the giver. all living things, your dog, cat, woman, children, etc. are of...
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    Ended my LTR of two years

    the key is realizing that nothing is permanent in life. all things are temporary, because your life itself is temporary. this is why the buddhists tell us not to get too attached to anything. i've always said, life is merely an experience. this is why you should never get to upset over...
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    Are these fundamentalist Mormons really DJ's

    you are thinking that they see their wives as their emotional significant other. they don't. they look at their wives from a utilitarian perspective. they aren't emotionally invested in her. she's there for sex, reproduction and house cleaning. if she got hit by a car tomorrow they wouldn't...
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    Are these fundamentalist Mormons really DJ's

    ok, here's why some might confuse these guys with DJs, or the arabs too. see, in both these cultures the men don't make decisions based on 'love'. they actually don't believe in 'love'. when you love something you don't try to control it. these cultures view the woman as 1) means of...
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    ever think....

    hahaha. yes, this is what im talking about. im not depressed or nothing. im just tired of everything being so predictable. and yes, i can go sky diving or something, but life itself is so predictable generally speaking. now if aliens turned out to be true, or jesus came back, nothing...
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