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Going ghost right now is a great play, and I'd go ghost for good on this one, her level of disrespect is too high. I've been in similar situations like this, and my play is usually "Hope you feel better." Then I disappear for good. I like to end things on a somewhat mannerly fashion, but not...

OP it depends, if it bothers you I would look into getting a transplant, they are expensive but the results can potentially be quite good (assuming you haven't gone all the way slick up top and are open to taking finasteride).

My face while reading this:

I don't, but it was an epic line haha.

Ghosting is the more powerful response, I read a post here that stands out to me perhaps more than any other. Hamsters run best in silence.

OP it's time to dump and cut your losses, you know it deep down. I know you won't do it though, we never realize it until it hits us in the face. One day you'll look back at your post and think "damn, the signs were all there and I ignored them."

Well...this is quite the story. Good thing you made it out (relatively) unscathed.

Should have tried to escalate while you were there, don't worry man on to the next one. Girls in the bar want you to escalate. They are not looking for a mild-mannered gentleman with a PhD that does neurosurgery as a hobby.

You gotta start somewhere ;). Seriously though, don't stoop down to that level. I actually find "thick" girls attractive, but being seen out in public with them is a different thing...they're like a scooter, fun to ride but don't let your friends see you doing it.

OP, speaking as an American who spent some time in a similar "motherland" country, 99% of women will just see you as a meal ticket and put on a facade. Don't want to be the bearer of bad news but this is how it is. You're one play, though, is to conceal absolutely all signs of wealth. Dress...

OP this should be you. yesterday.

Long distance is generally bad. But brother, let me tell you something. The red flags were probably there earlier on but you chose to put your head in the sand and ignore them. We've all been there. But this woman wasn't so smart that she was able to pull the rope-a-dope for 2 years. The first...

Anywhere 5'8" +/- 1" to me is ideal, presuming she also has curves. Much less likely that a taller woman turns into a whale later on. Long legs... :p.

Brutal.

Not a problem at all, people can be incompatible for many reasons. Different interests, different life views, maybe just she prefers vanilla and you like chocolate chip. It doesn't matter. What matters is not wasting your precious time and resources.

I have personally found trying to raise interest is stupid on my part. I need to work on myself to become a better man all around, not for anyone else's external validation. The signs are always there. Always. We choose to ignore them because the truth hurts, especially if you have a fragile...

Imagine if women were always respectful, courteous, polite. Stuck true to their word, dependable, made sure to present themselves in the best way possible to you. Would this site exist? You would simply pick the one which you liked the most, and have a great relationship with her, no playing...

That girl is quite attractive, you're taste isn't bad at all.

Things can never really be the same. Trust is permanently lost, no matter how much mental gymnastics we try. Stay strong, on to the next one :cool:.

Man getting that type of text makes going no contact x100 times easier. Imagine getting just radio silence from her, after getting cheated on and disrespected maximally. That was my case. Not even the common courtesy to get an "it's over, thanks for the good memories" message. It looks like...