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This is tricky. Suppose I tell you the following: think about anything except pink elephants. What's the first thing you're going to think about? The key isn't to stop thinking about her. It's to just think about other things. Your work, your hobbies, other women. Over time and through the...

If it means anything, I make good money, have my life together, am fit, and my BPD ex dumped me for a guy who looks like napolean dynamite and is boring as ****. I think he has a mental disability or something. There is no hope in attempting to understand this. I actually hate her with a...

I'm sorry to hear this story man. It seems like you're still holding on to hope with some previous version of your ex that no longer exists. This is a very difficult thing to come to terms with. What I can tell you for sure is that breaking no contact will change nothing. You will just set...

Stay strong man, do not contact her. I know you're probably thinking in your mind, if I just send her the right message, catch her interest in the right way, then everything will turn around. This won't happen, trust me. You'll just feel like an idiot for breaking no contact. You need to make...

Would rather pay a hooker than be with a girl like this for free. Next her man.

OP, she is spinning c0cks and you were another c0ck on the carousel that didn't quite make her cut. This girl is a h0e and be grateful she is out of your life. Don't look back.

Yeah @stovepipe the shame is the worst feeling of them all. But you know, even despite that, you still think to yourself "Did I do something to cause this"? "What could I have done differently to prevent this"? So it's a combination of self-guilt and shame that makes a man just crumble...

Thank you guys, I never followed up with her and she is blocked and ignored. Will never devalue myself for pu$$y again, I'm almost ashamed to admit it but as the saying goes, you live and you learn. I think the problem lies with this. You have this image of a person in your mind. And even...

You're right, I should and will just drop her

That's the problem with these damn hot women. I understand the theory that you spin plates to keep this from happening. If all your plates are about equal rating, then this works...but s3xing a 6.5 is much different than an 8.5, as we all know. Nevertheless I know this woman is poisonous, but...

I think I should ignore, this lure of s3x is nothing more than a ploy to keep my mind trapped. Screw this sh1t, thanks guys.

Dude I just got a message from here saying she came back from the salon, did a full wax, and asked if I wanted to watch a movie tonight :eek:. I may just be able to use her as a plate for s3x, but I have feelings for this b1tch, and I feel if I do this she'll just continue to trap me. Should I...

Damn man, this is a savage world.

I’ll do this, it’s just that I’m so disgusted that this temporary “justice” would seemingly bring me some relief. But I know deep down that it’s a beta move, because it shows her that she hurt me deep and she “won”, so to speak.

Thanks guys, my gut instinct tells me just disappearing is the way to go...but I was still thinking of sending something along the lines of this if she messages me: Cheating Girl: "DreamAgain where are youuuu, what's going on? *kisses*" Me: "Hey, just working." Cheating Girl: "Want to come over...

Yes she was lovebombing me, initiating texts, s3x, everything. She is a messed up demon. There is something hypnotizing about this woman. I sh1t you not, she has this sort of hypnotizing glance about her and is very pretty, like a young anne hatheaway or sandra bullock. When she starts...

Holy sh1t man, inspiring story. Props you didn't succumb to the urge of verbally blasting her. How were you able to keep your cool so well? Didn't you feel that it was almost your right, the right thing to do in the name of justice, to call her out?

Actually another guy I know. Apparently he had no idea she was with anyone, she said she was single.

Yes it is that BPD. She started lovebombing me and I broke no contact, I was such a dumb@ss. Thinking that I was crazy for falsely accusing her, that she is actually a good girl after all. I'm truly mind fukked right now.

I found out in the cruelest of ways. My buddy basically did some snooping and figured out she has been plowing this other guy behind my back for a while. He pretty much said the whole "dude sorry to break it to you" speech. My stomach feels terrible, I can't even eat any food. It's a sickening...