Search results

Basically the title. On the one hand, if I go immediate no contact, her hamster may spin for a while wondering why I ghosted. She probably won't care considering I meant that little enough to cheat on me. This was a multi year relationship by the way. On the other hand, I feel like, from a...

No. OP think logically, you can do better. Plate and nothing more.

OP, don't do this. No direct talk, I promise you she will say she isn't sure and wants to stay just friends. She'll say some variation of that. You need to go no contact with her for a while, give her terse, 1 word answers if she messages you. She will probably say something like what's wrong...

OP, I've been in your situation before. There's always another guy in the picture getting what you're not. This girl isn't sweet, it's all an act. Go no contact and look for other women, save yourself a lot of time and trouble.

Thanks my tiger friend, silence it will be. Maybe she'll think I'm dead. Maybe that I'm banging a victoria's secret model. She'll never know.

It's like another chance at life. Wiping the slate clean. Some scars will remain from the pain, but remember, they were self-inflicted. Do you wonder if she thinks about you? She sends you a text message after a month, you don't even open it, instant delete. She thinks, what an *******. Or...

I'm in a similar process right now. Going no contact for good, will ignore all texts/calls/e-mails. This ho really did a number on me, all my fault though by letting her, it takes two to tango. Here's to our recovery mate, cheers.

Just wanted to throw this out as a reminder. If you find yourself becoming captain save a ho...drop the girl and just go no contact, you'll thank me later. You'll feel good "helping" your girl or plate out, it seems to trigger some primal instinct within us. But remember. This can quickly...

No contact done right, well done ;)

It's been a few months. This little wh0re triggered my captain save a ho senses in me, something which should have been an obvious red flag and I should have left then and there. There's something weird, at least with me but maybe universally with guys, about wanting to solve a woman's...

I was one of those beta guys that tolerated disrespect, got oneitis, acted like a total pu$$y. I'm a decent looking guy, well built, dress well, educated, and this little ***** had me by the balls, just because I thought I couldn't get anyone better than her. Lesson learned and I finally walked...

Going to laugh when she figures out this guy is plating her.

No contact time.

It was lame I know. The thing is, a lot of things people have said here are intuitive, and my gut feeling told me what I was doing was stupid. I guess it's still hard for me to understand that women like having orbiters and controlling them. Maybe because I personally would never string along...

Do you think I looked bad then with the texts I sent? I was hoping she would at least ask me to clarify, not give the most completely indifferent response she could give, a stupid emoji. I was trying to get her to fight for me, but she turned the tables so easily.

Ironically, I think things would be much better if I did this. She didn't earn my attention and I gave it for free, making myself look pitiful. In my attempt to do something good, she actually lost respect for me.

Thanks, will do. I didn't really do anything too AFC, but supplicating to help her was perhaps too much, even though she really evoked some pity out of me with how she described her situation. Regarding the text exchange though, would you have handled it differently? I guess it doesn't matter...

It wasn't so robotic and coerced as I wrote. But it was clear she didn't want anything to progress further. Keep in mind this is also a girl with a lot of guy friends, some of whom I've met personally, and they are all obviously trying to get in her pants.

3 dates, on the last one I gave her a massage and when I went to start taking off clothes she stopped me and said it was late and had to go home. Afterwards she sent me a text that she had a great night and wanted to see me again? Her words didn't match up with her actions. I interpreted it as...

Yes we have been on a few dates, I was able to escalate a little but no s3x.