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I am frustrated I admit, but I wasn't entirely supplicating. My goal was to show I wasn't only looking to bang, which I wasn't. But I'm just unsure if saying anything or simply going ghost was a better decision.

I didn't lecture or block, just sent the last texts that I wrote. So it seems like I may have given a bit of an ultimatum, but I thought it would make more sense to give some clarity to her rather than just disappearing.

Good points. We've been on a few dates, got touchy feely, but no s3x. So I sort of helped her with the implication that I wasn't just looking to smash and dash, which I actually didn't, because she had other good qualities that made it seem like she was relationship material. I was expecting...

So, this girl who's pretty attractive has been stringing me along for some time, being hot and cold and generally sending too many mixed signals. After helping her with some huge report that she had due soon, I got a nonchalant "Thanks!" response that ticked me off and made me suspect she was...

Very tough situation. These women come out like demons trying to suck you back in, and if you are a naturally noble and good man, you'll be tempted to think of only the "good" times and maybe even think she has changed for the better. Stay strong, you have support here.

Most girls don't have the attention spans to read elaborate texts, or to read more than a few sentences. Ever notice when you try to send something more thought out, they typically only respond to the last sentence, ignoring everything else? Calling is much better in my opinion. Can build...

Why would one's intent belie one's words, unless the goal is to deceive? A person who is extensively late, and makes a habit out of it, clearly does not value the other person's time, barring some unforseen emergencies. A woman who lies will attempt to deceive in other ways, this is almost a...

OP, I would've gotten mad like you too. But if this was a guaranteed smash after, I would have waited patiently, and then told her the next day that my time is valuable, and I'm disappointed that she doesn't respect it more. Or maybe I would just go no contact.

Needed to escalate more dude, you are right with your analysis. If she rejected your kiss the first time, unless she specifically got up and walked away, or told you to F off, then you assume it is part of the game and you keep going. I would wait 3-4 more days and call, not text.

Danger, how did you react to all the gaslighting? The constant projection of blame was unbelievable to me because no matter what I said, it was always my fault. It happened so many times that I almost started to believe it. My turning point was when a good friend of mine told me to snap it out...

I did, but it isn't so simple when you are in a relationship with one. In the beginning she took such a keen enthusiasm to my interests I was amazed I found someone so "compatible". I was amazed that she had such superlatives for me and was so sweet. Of course she was extremely physically...

It seems like you're very familiar with their tactics, I'm assuming you were in a relationship with one earlier. What we are willing to tolerate just for physical attractiveness is absurd, and yet the cycle repeats. I'll admit, when I first met this one, I had no idea that such women existed...

It is my fault, I agree. She sucked me into her vortex, when I should have ran away much earlier.

I just wanted to post this to find some solidarity with any BPD aftermath sufferers. No matter how hot she is, I just want to warn you guys, do NOT get involved with these women. Do NOT get sucked in. They will build up your ego only to destroy it later mercilessly. You will try not to get...

Dude, I understand your frustration completely. The best revenge, if you feel like you must get some, is to continue no contact and ignore her if she ever reaches out again. If she does, just let her see the new and improved you, with a hotter girl on your arm, and let her hamster spin forever.

Haha I mean, this guy isn't Nadal or Federer obviously...but he's made a couple mil I think.

I don't know, I never asked her. Was that a mistake you think?

Probably that I'm tall, educated, hopefully she found me interesting/good looking as well? I mean I don't know for sure.

The point is I didn't really do anything wrong, I think she just saw it as a better opportunity. An equivalent point could be, imagine if all of a sudden a victoria's secret model asked you out and showed a lot of interest in you...it is what it is.

You're absolutely right. I guess I just wanted to highlight how easy it is nowadays for women to branchswing. I'm just more disappointed in myself that I sort of caught oneitis for this girl just because she was really attractive, and she obviously did a good job fooling me.