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I don't even care too much about looks anymore personally. I've sat through enough boring "dates" with airheads that thought flowers bloomed everywhere they walked past. It was only when I started hanging out with more interesting people, people who actually accomplished things and had...

There's not much too it, you just slow fade until contact ceases and then you aren't even considered acquaintances anymore. I struggled with this idea for a bit. Is it better to keep in contact with these "fake friends" for the sake of having contacts? For social proof? It's a difficult...

And before someone chimes in, well those young girls are only party girls and bar skanks, lol man, 18 - 24 is a woman's prime and if you are not bagging them here, you are getting someone's leftovers. That may sound quite pessimistic but it's the truth. A separate discussion is the...

As a forum veteran, I expected more from OP. Everything I have seen indicates that looks are everything, followed by social status, i.e. money which goes hand in hand. I have seen so many witty, genuinely funny and interesting guys fail over and over again with women, and braindead better...

There worst thing you can do is not escalate here. If you don't try to escalate, she will ghost you and get super insulted. Of course, if she doesn't play ball the first time, pause and change the subject a bit, then try again. If it's a no go the second time, then abort mission and leave.

Time to cut bait

OP, listen to me. We've all been in your shoes at some point, and made similar mistakes. This situation is not salvageable. Walk away with some pride and leave this hoe alone. You will thank me and others later after you finish no contact and move on to better women, yes they are out there even...

A walk in the park / getting coffee somewhere / getting drinks at your local bar (maximum 15 minutes from your place). Nothing more than this needs to be done, and if she likes you she will eagerly get in line for any of these options.

Dump her, but I doubt you will do it unless you have a hotter upgrade on standby.

I've never been married myself so I can't speak from experience like some of the posters here. What I imagine, if you find the right woman, is the following: Marriage gives the children an impression of stability and allows them to focus easier on actual problems that life will throw at them...

An attractive woman is never truly single. It would sort of short circuit her brain if she had no male prospects in the pipeline. They always keep a few orbiters around to feed their ego if things didn't work out with the candidate at the top of her list.

If you don't have kids with the woman, no point to marry. I think marriage (if viewed from an idealistic perspective) is important for raising children properly though, for many reasons that I don't feel like writing here. Who will be the mother of your children is perhaps the most important...

Well played @crosscheck1331, that's how it's done. You are like a tiger in the forrest, pick a spot and let the prey come to you :).

OP you bring up interesting points that have validity. Also, many women are much more lazy than you think. Being with a high value man takes work, or else your ass is getting kicked to the curb. Settling for "good enough" allows you to continue to eat ice cream and expand your waistline while...

OP, I've mostly moved on from this forum, but I'll give you some advice... Look to change within. Dating isn't a job interview, your "credentials" will only get you so far. Become a better conversationalist, more interesting, more witty, and enjoyable to be around. If you think your location...

Maybe you're right. But that's the question I'm trying to figure out actually. Is being numb, sort of in this zen state, preferable to being in pain? I feel as if the longer I'm in this neutral state, while it is protective, it is also a hindrance. Hell, being in pain sucked. I remember it...

Your overall, average happiness will be higher. However, it's a time decaying function. I'm not sure a man can reach peak happiness without believing in an idealistic notion of love. I think it was Doestoevsky or Neitzsche who said that as long as a man has some hope, he can endure anything...

I've learned a lot from this website and the posters here. The articles, books, information are all invaluable, and I have applied them with positive outcomes in the end. I had some time on a longer drive yesterday to just think and let my mind wander, and I began to reflect on all this, and my...

Weeded out low interest, saved yourself time and money. Seems like a good outcome.

I will 100% guarantee you it won't end there, and you'll get another argument when she comes back to the apartment. You'll be doing a lot more talking than you think very soon.