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I agree, certainly if my experiment fails I will come back and make the most of what the US has to offer.

I could tell you, but if you're the type of guy to simply view women as "pvssy" instead of the mother of your children then I don't think this is the thread for you. It is the capital city of one of the countries in between Germany and Russia, so could be Prague, Warsaw, one of the Balkan...

The whole point was you will not be advertising yourself as western. You will assimilate, and if you cannot then obviously you will attract the bad types you mentioned.

@SW15 It depends what the advanced degree is in. At my university there were several Iranian women in graduate studies in engineering who had both brains and beauty, were feminine, etc. They graduated the top university in Iran for STEM which you can google yourself, but they were all in...

Well, to be fair. I am definitely in a lack of abundance. I am definitely moving primarily for this reason. Professionally there is no advantage for me doing so. But my conclusions are from two major reasons: 1) Life circumstances that prevented me from seizing the opportunity with certain...

Yes exactly. All that it would do in theory is provide more security for your family, as well as your own personal enrichment and satisfaction with your career. Your SMV only increases for temporary relations with gold digger and status seeker types, which is fine if you just want to pump and...

Yes this is true, and where your own responsibility and position becomes most important. 1. Are you going somewhere where you will not assimilate, and be prepared to not (potentially) be in it for the long haul. 2. Are you going somewhere where you have no prior connection or where there is a...

Well, I do think a reasonable age gap is important. It is rather arbitrary, but I do not believe anything larger than 10 years is good. The same age +/- 1 year is the best. It's the best alignment of life experiences, health, energy levels, societal expectations. Following this is about 5...

Yes, that is a big problem. One of the only things that can really stop this is religion. I am not saying go find your wife in church, as I do not equate participation in church with having religious values. But it is certainly something to consider when screening women.

My life is certainly not bad by any objective measure, but it depends on what makes a person happy. I am not financially wanting, my health is good, I have interesting hobbies and feel generally fulfilled. I think a man's life is enhanced significantly by having the right wife and having a...

I've attended yoga classes and it could have been my particular class just didn't have any I was interested in, perhaps I should have tried a few different places. I'm happy though you feel like you have enough options at your fingertips, certainly if I felt that way I wouldn't be making this...

As I haven't attended these schools I can't say with any certainty what I think is true. Actually, it's more likely I'm wrong like you said. However, the girls that I know who attended those schools who I was interested in from high school did not attend "insert big state U here". But again, my...

@SW15 Well I guess my sample size isn't large enough to say that college age relationships mostly fizzle out or succeed, I don't know the details of how those women found their eventual spouses but it was likely through an extended social circle either through their college or high school peers...

Yes certainly I'll have to compromise, I myself am not perfect at all so this is mostly idealized that I described.

@EyeOnThePrize what you say is certainly true, but I will say in response: 1) I do not view it as plundering as I am going to move to a place where I have familial heritage, language fluency, and pre-existing cultural assimilation. Rather, it is a re-acclamation of what is a part of myself, and...

It's kind of funny, before you acquire money being poor is very much a dealbreaker, but once you get some you have to worry about intentions. This is why finding someone similar to you is so important, in terms of IQ, physical attractiveness, age, values, education, etc. You can much more easily...

@SW15 it is possible for you as well, you will need to likely commit to acquiring some IT sector skills which I think anyone can do with enough effort. And of course fluency in the local language so you can assimilate better. Of course, one of the biggest questions will be, even if you meet the...

I've posted here in the past, mostly on my situation with oneitis which now I understand more clearly. I want to explain some things and why I'll be leaving the United States soon for Eastern Europe. Simply put, I grew up in the US but came from an immigrant family, so we were poor. When you...

Fair point, I missed that! My reading comprehension indeed does need work!

@Atom Smasher I see you are well intentioned, but your words are simply anachronistic and unfortunately not applicable with today's youth. It is easy to say what should be done from the sidelines. But if you aren't in the game, this is just pontificating for the sake of taking a mental exercise...