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Look, I'm sure she is a nice person, but I would never marry a girl who gave it up on the first night. Because I know there are a lot of handsome guys out there who were just like be smashing away if it was that easy.

Back when I had a lot of things going wrong in my life, I supplicated to these "boomerang" messages from ex's and it was bait every single time, and I felt worse every single time replying to them. I was a low value man, and believed they genuinely cared about me. It really is like...

After a certain age, they really can't sadly.

Getting nothing just means you haven't maximized your looks. I don't know your situation but the cliches really are true, when I started working out more, dressing with fitted clothing, good haircut, and improved my social skills, I attracted and was with numerous women. They didn't work out...

Well, interesting. The only benefit I can see is access to women and sleeping with them. Which gets old very quickly if you don't have a mental/emotional connection with them. It is just like all the pornography that occupies thousands of terabytes on the internet. Doesn't seem like you missed...

I have considered this, but I figured I'd rather be alone than poison my soul doing this. Each person has a tolerance for the "fake it until you make it" approach. Mine isn't that high unfortunately.

Where I live, there are a lot of potential attractive single girls who go out to bars. Rooftop bars, outdoor ones by the water, there are candidates. But, you have to be complicit in the system in order for this to work 99% of the time. Meaning, you must tolerate heavy social media usage...

Well to be honest there are not many other options in the USA. US social life is extremely, extremely tied to your educational history and your work history. Dating from work contacts or alumni from your university is the best way to find a long term girlfriend and potential wife. Sports...

Ignorance is bliss to some people.

You are not observing choosing signals. In a club, interested girls will make it clear they are interested in you. They will move to be close to you, "accidentally" touch you, ask you a question first, etc.

Dental hygienist is not a bad profession, it certainly wouldnt be a dealbreaker by any means. I agree that generally if a woman is a manager that is a bad sign. Likely she is bossy and high strung. I would date a lawyer or a doctor potentially but it depends on the rest of her personality. I...

I only look for one exception on OLD, and that is a girl who moved to a new city and doesn't have established social contacts. Otherwise, my guard is immediately on red alert why she is not locked up. There are a few possibilities, only two are acceptable: 1) She is highly intelligent and...

I would rephrase, a guy who was sociable throughout high school and college and his early professional career, added everyone he knew, and continuously posted and displayed his social value could achieve similar results to you.

@SW15 The average neurotypical guy would be hard pressed to burn through all his prospects at a large university with 40,000 students. At this point, half of this population is within his social circle's grasp, assuming he has the right personality to conform to the expectations of these college...

Well see, your approach is only applicable for you because a normal person cannot photograph models and place them on his instagram. So you are carving out a unique niche that should have been prefaced in your first post, because it seemed like anyone could achieve what you did through...

Doesn't really change my point. This plot doesn't tell you which of these relationships ended in marriage/kids, which would be the end goal for couples unless you were just trying to hook up and increase your notch count.

I can assure you no one here is trying to date retail workers, maybe you are, if so more power to you. I like dating career women, that you pejoratively classify, because I like to spend my time with someone who I perceive as an intellectual peer. I like when a woman has drive to do something...

@SW15 Most men, not only mediocre men, get relationships from social circles. But populations are distributed by a bell curve. The mediocre men generally get paired up with the mediocre women, and the same with the right and left tails of the curve.

Well from what I have seen, it is the most common way that people who have gotten married have met. Perhaps my sample size is small, but this is what I've seen.

Nah, I went to a large public university that everyone in the US knows about. Sure people do move, but if you leveraged your social circle correctly and moved to a big city that is a target for the school you went to, then you will likely be able to go with your girlfriend to that city, or meet...