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Yup you're exactly right.

Well this is true. Everyone I know who followed the themes de jour of society, football/sports, Netflix shows, staying up to date with the group gossip, adding everyone they ever crossed paths with on istagram, basically becoming one with the herd, is married or in a steady relationship as they...

A weak rebuttal and you know it. Well anyway, if your objective is to just keep increasing your notch count with any female that crosses your path, keep plugging along the OLD path.

Good post. What do you do on instagram to have so many followers by the way? In real life I only have like 10 actual friends I would want to add and follow, people I call to hang out with, play sports, etc. Also, it feels cringy to me to post staged pictures on vacation, wherever, like I'm...

OP you live in America, the land of suburbia and strip malls and a predominantly overweight population. You should have been more keen to lock up some quality girl during your college years, now you're left with the undesirable scraps and fighting with the other hyenas for them.

The only true online dating option that is worth a damn nowadays is instagram. This of course requires a lot of time and money to build up with good pictures, of you traveling, doing cool things, etc. However, if you are in your thirties it is pretty cringe to be posting this stuff in my...

All of the women liking that are low iq and you would be ashamed to bring them home to your mom, so nothing to see here.

You are correct, but not that it is the bedrock of life at all. In fact, many of the most rewarding aspects of life, self growth, improvement, are all done through individual labor and effort. It is simply too difficult and up to chance to build a good social circle, making friends is a...

I agree with you to some extent, but this is why as a man you need to be in tune to choosing signals. I do not myself, or would recommend anyone else to approach without choosing signals. Some people have told me this was a mistake and I missed opportunities with girls who were very shy. Well...

You are wrong. A man who has subpar looks definitely needs to focus on social circle game, because he will be brutally demoralized "in the wild" by cold approaching. I have seen many examples of social circle game work, playing the long game, of guys with subpar looks. If you are above average...

Seems impossible but what do I know, I tip my cap to you, respect. Are these girls white and attending decent universities?

Need to increase your income then, especially if you are a man in his late 20s or early 30s.

It is normal for them to be going out at that age, if you aren't their exclusive boyfriend, once every 3 weeks is not a big deal.

Yes, for social interactions it sucks, for making money and acquiring materialistic things it is great.

To OP, yeah this will be a problem in the US. The US mating environment is constructed for you to date in your age bracket, i.e. in college and immedietly after your first few years of professional working life. You'll have to go across the pond if you want to minimize this problem.

You're probably not in america

You need your own place, it's not even a discussion.

@SW15 as an american your options are quite difficult if you did not establish good connections in college. The american suburban lifestyle caters to meeting your spouse either in college or early/mid twenties. If your focus is not on this then you will miss out. Going to europe your odds will...

Dallas up until recently is a very poor city in terms of meeting people organically. Very little walkability. It has slightly improved in the last 5 years or so. This greatly limits your capacity for meeting women. Parks, outdoor activities, daygame, becomes almost impossible. Additionally, it...

I can't speak for their life circumstances but hopefully they married and had children with someone they truly care about instead of "settling". Divorce and single parent households are very rough on children, but again without knowing these people who am I to judge. Ultimately for your own...