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Maybe, but maybe the women do as well. Let's just go for objective measurables first and then move on the qualitative areas. And further, I don't get your point about interracial dating, and I don't see how it's applicable. Then again I only date girls in my race so I can't speak to this.

It is the only move you can make when things can wrong, and the best one you can make. It's rare in life that your only choice is your best choice, what a funny world we live in.

Good salary, in shape, takes care of his grooming/appearance, educated. I see a lot of these guys around, much more than overweight women, or slimmer ones whose biggest talent is taking selfies for instagram.

Well objectively I think there is nothing you can do here. You can let her walk but as a single mom of 2 kids, which she will probably hide on her dates, eventually she will realize the grass is not greener and beg you to take her back. Whether you should do this complicates things because of...

The premise is good but the facts say otherwise: There are many more high value men than high value women in the US. If there weren't, there would be no reason to look abroad for these high value guys.

The world has globalized enough where successful men will earn enough in their countries, and have a common language, culture, value system with the desirable women available. This is the biggest impediment to passport bros. They are trying to exploit a glitch in the system, but there is...

Social circle is a great way to get introduced to people not in your immediate social circle. You don't generally want to date in your immediate social circle, things get very awkward if it goes wrong, which it likely will, and now you've ruined your social circle.

She officially broke up with me, but there was mutual interest fading I suppose, now I see with clarity after the passage of much time I was really only after her physically and she offered little else to my life besides that. I guess a person to talk to from time to time but many of our...

Great plan, cut bait early and save your time and resources for better prospects that are willing to comply.

I feel much better it helped me move on. The problem is, if you ultimately did love someone, then I don't think that can ever really go away. So it was painful, which I'm not beta to admit, to have her text breadcrumbs from time to time just to see if she still had me on a leash like a puppy...

It is tough dude. I would recommend blocking the number if you haven't already. It helps with the finality of it, it helped me move on. It's not a beta move at all, I thought it was but you are basically showing you are ready to permanently walk away and move on to bigger and better things in life.

@Smooth_texter You're one of the best posters to come through here in a long time. Giving people the truth that may be too inconvenient for them to hear, but it must be done.

I'm assuming women contact you through social media then? You aren't getting approached walking down the street or in bars I'm guessing.

Where do you go exactly for women to approach you? Are you a male model or similar looks status?

No idea why you weren't already in shape at 27, that's your own personal problem dude. And nah, it's definitely not transactional, but as the saying goes, there is a time and place for everything. I guess you just exposed yourself there.

OP you are a bit out of the times. Nowadays most women are approached digitally, they are not really receptive to strangers on the street. I also don't know your looks but there is always room for improvement there, get a stylish haircut, nice clothes that fit well, get more fit, etc. You...

Yup. You get people saying I've never done better with women, Im in my late 30s, 40s, blah blah blah. That's the prime of your life. These guys are selling a dream to these broads, if they are even saying the truth, without proof to be honest I am very, very skeptical. They are leading with $...

Of course it's better to start earlier. This is how you know if a girl truly likes you for you, and not your wallet, status, whatever. Plus, you have more energy, look better, younger, have more time, are more carefree, etc. Build your career/knowledge along the way. Further, the best girls...

I am doing cold approach and approaching in bars, trying fitness classes, dating apps, and also trying to build social media/instagram profile. Basically attacking from all fronts. I realized you cannot afford to miss opportunities due to certain principles and must try all options.

That seems like a very low probability avenue of success approach.