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This is correct.

This is largely true. That list of 6 things you listed is what everyone should be doing. But you are over looking one other factor. Women don't like to be pumped and dumped. They put up a facade that they don't care, or that they are "players too", but actually it hurts their ego tremendously...

True, it is very hard to meet wingmen especially once you enter your 30s. Most are wack, creepy, will actually bring down your SMV and girls will judge you for being around them.

What are your other avenues for meeting women?

I don't really know how practical your advice is. The overall economic landscape is a zero sum game, if everyone could make it to the upper tier earning ranges, the money would be devalued and the higher tier earners would just be shifted to a higher sum.

It is a double edged sword. Fundamentally though if you cannot assimilate into her culture by becoming fluent in the language of wherever you go, observant and perhaps a fan of the music, cuisine, tv/movies, whatever else, you will be ostracized. This is the fundamental problem I have with...

The problem is, a lot of life is discussing one's problems, obstacles, what you tried to do to solve them, what didn't work, etc. What kind of life is just, how was your day, oh everything was great, or if not, well no worries I'll solve problem xyz soon enough, everything is rainbows and...

Lost all credibility when you said this, fail.

If your family is in NYC, that is enough reason to go back. Also I would imagine you should be able to get with hotter girls there. Why beat your head against a wall, life is short enough as is.

It is absolutely stupid to block girls who you just met, went on one date and it didn't work out. Just move on, they are like a stranger. Now, exes perhaps for multiple years, who did you dirty, cheated perhaps, used you for resources while feigning love, I am an advocate of blocking because...

I would definetly like to date a woman like this. I often match with these types but the conversation fizzles out for no reason. Approaching in person, if they are single, is what I would do I think for the best chance to get her undivided attention.

@CornbreadFed what type of girls do you target most for OLD, just curious?

I have no problem sharing some of my online dating matches (with profiles anonymized) to prove im not bs-ing. And even proof from actual dates. But obviously I need to further step up all aspects of my SMV if I am to be more competitive.

Thanks @BeExcellent good post, I was told I'm cute lol but I'm no Sean O Pry or Brad Pitt at all. Great level of detail in your writing

Posted some of my stats earlier.

I sense some blackpill in this young buck, it is inevitable haha

Where would you recommend? Due to smartphones and social media poison, I bet many places have become quite similar to the US.

Yes online dating in FL is waste lol.

I don't think it's mutually exclusive to have a daughter who wants to look out for her career and not be dependent on her man to live. My mother was like this and was raised in a traditional household. My grandfather actually emphasized this to her, to study and establish a good job for herself...

I think you would be better off doing the following, which is kind of the equivalent of your SA experiment: Build a top tier IG profile (5000+ followers or so) with pictures of you on boats, nice vacation spots, nice car, nice restaurants. Go through the swipe apps and find girls that put...