To Block or not
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CornbreadFed
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No and Yes. If you are looking for a woman to for LTR purposes, then yes I would do this. However, if you have the discipline and self-awareness to not fall for this girl then No. This girl could've rejected you because of timing or something out of your control and you might be next in line to bat in her head. Lets say she decides to hit you up on a Saturday night and she either sees that you blocked her or you see a random number texting you and you have to do the "Who is this" dance. Furthermore, it only gives you an emotional boost because the girl honestly does not give af that you blocked her.
RazorRambo24
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Really doesn't matter. if a girl doesn't like you, she can care less if you block her or not, unless you were good friends before. If not, the only one who will care is you, especially if you're desperate and its hard for you to find women.
Rejection isnt a bad thing. At some point, even the biggest egotistic chauvanistic alphas realize not everyone is going to like them simply for existing.
Rejection isnt a bad thing. At some point, even the biggest egotistic chauvanistic alphas realize not everyone is going to like them simply for existing.
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The problem is, an uninterested woman will not give a flying fvck if you has blocked or still keep her in your friendlist. So at this point, it's all up to you. If you want to block, you block. If you don't, you don't.
Doesn't really matter.
Doesn't really matter.
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I would say unfriending is the way to go, then just go on with your life meeting new girls. If she see’s that you unfriended her she may reach out to you. It’s unlikely, but you have nothing to lose. If you block her she has no way to ever get ahold of you in the future.
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It is absolutely stupid to block girls who you just met, went on one date and it didn't work out. Just move on, they are like a stranger.
Now, exes perhaps for multiple years, who did you dirty, cheated perhaps, used you for resources while feigning love, I am an advocate of blocking because these girls/women are poison to your life.
There is no future where she can re-enter your life after a sufficient level of disrespect. I recommend blocking because it shows her there is no coming back from this and now she has a permanent life sentence of your absence. Maybe she cares, maybe she doesn't. But from your perspective, you don't have to worry about random texts/calls, which are not random, but in fact intended to test your weakness to her, which you probably still have unless you are a sociopath or something.
Better to just move on and block in these situations in my opinion.
Now, exes perhaps for multiple years, who did you dirty, cheated perhaps, used you for resources while feigning love, I am an advocate of blocking because these girls/women are poison to your life.
There is no future where she can re-enter your life after a sufficient level of disrespect. I recommend blocking because it shows her there is no coming back from this and now she has a permanent life sentence of your absence. Maybe she cares, maybe she doesn't. But from your perspective, you don't have to worry about random texts/calls, which are not random, but in fact intended to test your weakness to her, which you probably still have unless you are a sociopath or something.
Better to just move on and block in these situations in my opinion.
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Are we talking about blocks of a phone number or blocks on social media?
There's not much a reason for social media to be a part of the equation in the first few dates if you're arranging dates in the real world or on swipe apps. The only reason social media would be applicable is if you're using the Instagram/Twitter DMs to arrange dates.
I would unfriend/unfolllow if the 1-2 dates didn't work out if you did already link on social media.
Delete a phone number but don't block a number if 1-2 dates don't work out from a real life interaction.
There's not much a reason for social media to be a part of the equation in the first few dates if you're arranging dates in the real world or on swipe apps. The only reason social media would be applicable is if you're using the Instagram/Twitter DMs to arrange dates.
I would unfriend/unfolllow if the 1-2 dates didn't work out if you did already link on social media.
Delete a phone number but don't block a number if 1-2 dates don't work out from a real life interaction.