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Damn @Pan87 dropping truth bombs all over the villagers.

That is some truly sad **** but yet at the same time completely believable.

Yeah certainly if I saw her blowing money like that it would be a red flag, after taxes her 100k is not a lot more than the 80k guy anyway. Yes though, women have less impulse control in general when it comes to personal finances/spending. Another problem with finding one for a long term...

Also, if you make less than her, maybe you will be a little bit better looking, or have better other physical attributes. Maybe you can play an instrument very well, or are a great conversationalist, or are just a genuinely interesting person that is pleasant to be around. There are trade offs...

You can earn around the same ballpark and that be perfectly ok. Yes, ideally you will want to make slightly more, but if you don't, you should be expected to bring other things to the table then. If you are earning less, it should be assumed you have more spare time then. If you show you are...

It makes sense to get married in your mid 20s with a similarly aged or slightly younger wife. You will have children earlier in the prime of your life, which means you will be younger when they get older, and be able to spend more quality time with them. You will save precious time circling...

Chick 2 is definitely more appealing. It would give me less worry that she is a gold digger because our income levels will be similar. Also, the 70+ hours would be a dealbreaker, but I don't believe it has to be that much. Probably closer to 45 actually, certainly physicians or dentists aren't...

Your points are very salient. Looking to attract women in expensive cities without the corresponding salary to meet the lifestyle expectations is setting yourself up for failure.

Since as you know, the stakes become much higher in this situation obviously. You are intertwined with another person a minimum of 18 years with the birth of a child, with serious implications to your life from many perspectives, financial, social, societal, etc.

Understood. What is your opinion that younger guys should do then, looking for a younger women who is obviously fertile and healthy enough to have children, and potentially become a wife?

Very true, the thing is I just don't understand why guys here biased against women with good careers. I find it a huge plus actually. It indicates she has some higher intelligence as her position usually requires a degree, assuming she is not just in HR at a company or something. If she is...

What age range are you targeting though? Most around the age of 25 would not have these attributes.

You have dated some higher quality women, where did you meet them out of curiosity?

Great post.

My goal was to do this but circumstances beyond my control as an son of immigrants to the US who were poor did not allow me to do so. I was never comfortable inter mingling with the other "normal" white kids who were upper middle class / rich, where my family drove a bad car, had very modest...

Red pill guys are anti-marriage because it is the smart thing to do when they reach their failed destination that plate spinning leads them. There are very few women that are marriage material once you enter your late 20s/30s. The smart guys have identified the proper targets during high...

Most women are not that good looking either, actually most men are naturally better looking, especially after the age of 25 or so. Im straight and just saying this objectively. Makeup, the plastic surgery industry, this all makes a huge difference. Women without makeup look completely...

In that case, he screwed up by changing the location on the app and trying to be serious with this. I do not believe this relationship will work unless she moves to be with him soon, or vice versa.

Congratulations, isn't it nice when you actually meet someone who gets your nervous/gets your adrenaline flowing. So, I'll make this response short and to the point: Long distance is likely not going to work here. You need to find ways to physically be around this girl and see how things go...

It is possible, but like in any situation, you need to look for indicators of interest first. Did she look your way multiple times, did she smile, did she play with her hair, etc. Very subtle cues that increase your chances from the 0% starting point. Follow warm leads and don't just spam cold...