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    Wanna date successfully? Date DOWN!!

    I think there’s value in this perspective. I would say don’t just settle down though. Each time you date down, you get practice in doing things that would work for any women, so make the most of it.
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    Language Barriers in Dating

    I don’t understand why you compare or even expect her language skills in par to someone who’s English is her first language. I’d also suggest to make the most of it
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    When they say " i feel safe"

    She’s pair bonded
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    Clothes

    To dress well doesn’t equate with having expensive clothes. Id say clean and fit is enough as long as you have a sense of what type of clothes and style works best for you.
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    How to Find a Long-Term Relationship During the Hectic Life of Graduate School

    Right now you have a bigger issue than finding a woman. Work on your time management and priority setting until you balance your life and move those 12hr/day to an average of 8hr/day.
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    10 Ways to Improve your SMV for better Daygame Interactions

    respectfully disagree. The only Russian girls a man should want are those that find said man to be attractive from the get go. Baseline qualities that make you attractive have been posted ad Nauseum : height, looks(hair), money, status(above average)
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    Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners

    What I have experienced is that they care about your struggles and can go to the extend of supporting you significantly as long as you show that you keep yourself actively carrying on. off topic but related, so many things, including human relationships, can’t be completely and indefinitely...
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    Provider Male vs. Alpha??

    Does Bob and the girl have children of their own?
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    Dm her now or later?

    my take is that as long as you have other things going on in your life, it doesn’t really matter if you wait or not. Just do it when you have some free time and forget about until you have some free time/about to go to sleep, then check, answer , repeat. also, I think asking for the ig is not a...
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    Empirical Insights: How Higher Education Impacts Divorce Rates Among Women

    I don’t think you need to compete with a college educated woman in order to get her. Being financially independent, a college woman can afford not to care too much about the individual finances of her partner as long as said partner is financially independent. I that said, college educated...
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    How often do you guys go on ‘ Bro dates’?

    Bromance is just a term used by the newer generation. I’ve heard it been use by girls to playfully criticize guys that spend quality time with their friends instead of them. I personally like to spend time with the few friends I consider good friends. (Mostly male, as almost all the good female...
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    How do you go about getting into a girl's dms on instagram? What are the fundamentals of instagram game?

    I would say making friends after college age is pretty difficult anywhere in the world. It is possible, just slower. I would start getting involved in some clubs/societies/community stuff that are of your interest. Don’t use these environments to try pick up, just friends in general, preferably...
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    How do you go about getting into a girl's dms on instagram? What are the fundamentals of instagram game?

    I agree with everything except the shirtless pics and absolute quantity of followers. In my opinion is better to not show too much of your body, if you have a good physique it will show with any clothes, preferably stylish classy slightly unique clothes. Anecdotically, I have seen successful...
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    What to do if a plate is dating another guy

    I second this. He lost the battle already. Can’t catch feelings first.
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    Getting her to ***

    Sounds like you’re putting in the effort. I suggest that you always try to improve your sex game, honestly, don’t do it for just this girl, it is something that should be polished anyways. At the same time, I would suggest you don’t worry too much about yourself if you do your best and you...
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    TikTok Is Much More Dangerous Than You Thought.

    The same can be said of any social media platform. I don’t sympathize with the CCP but it’s in their best interest, as is in the best interest of Facebook know every detail of your life.
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    Check this guy out - Asian dude bags model

    I am going to agree with your first idea. After that, sure life does not end, but prime time is gone wether you like it or not.
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    I'm done being honest with women

    In my experience, honesty should be proportional to the amount of hardships you go together with said woman.
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    A zoomer's observation of game and relationship dynamics...

    This is true, and this is why is not wise to seek specific advice from people outside your generation. However, the money looks status + a pinch of social skills quartet requirement does not change. Always aim to be above average.
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    The Anti-Flake Methodology

    I am usually more direct with the location , but I see how this can show some mistery and dominance if you time it well and dont yield to her asking multiple times. Just out of curiosity, at what stage are you sending this “we should catch up” text?
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