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    Who Should Initiate Sex Most Of The Time?

    I would say that one lives a happier, less stressful life, by subconscientiously or conscientiously choosing the ones with reactive desire. I respect the fact that each person has different sex drives, and that sex can’t be pushed. nonetheless I will always choose to walk away from women with...
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    Going on vacation with a woman. To do or not to do

    I have done this a couple of times. In your situation, this is how I would do it, regardless of how long I’ve known the person (assuming is not a stranger I met 24hrs ago) or even if we havent had sex ( kisses and kino is a must though). my first check would be: do I genuinely want to do this...
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    What's the deal with women and simps saying "communication" is so important?

    I couldn’t agree more with this. Thanks for putting this in lay words @Bigpapa In my experience, this is the name of the game for mid or long term relationships.
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    Game with different languages

    I completely understand this. For my, it is English that is foreign. I haven’t done anything other than get better at it, something that has helped me is to remember sayings or catch phrases from daily small talk/books/friend conversation etc and then put them to use accordingly. But I guess I...
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    The harsh truth about social circle game

    I hear you on this one. My experience is that if the gay guy is friends with your girl first, it would most likely behave in a protective way towards her or play “her team”. However, my experience is also that the gay friend other posters are referring to is the type of gay friend that becomes...
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    Artificial Sweetener Sucralose found to be "Genotoxic"

    Toxic concentration thresholds exist for everything. Under certain concentrations things are deemed to be safe, over it deemed to be toxic and that is how safety standards are established. I am simply giving my interpretation of the original source of the article you posted, and provided...
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    Artificial Sweetener Sucralose found to be "Genotoxic"

    Interesting post. I just read the article and seems useful to point out that is not sucralose per se what seems to be genotoxic, but a sucralose impurity that might make 0.67% of commercial sucralose. In addition, if you go to the original source then my interpretation is that Table 4 shows that...
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    Cigarettes

    In the past I’ve used the excuse of going for a cigarette as an occasion to go out of a nightclub and have a somewhat more intimate conversation. Coupled with the old “cool vibe” of it and the fact that I don’t like dancing that much, I’d say it was useful.
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    Thrill of the hunt or LTR? There is an option C

    I've had stopped from logging to the forum for some time, partly to sleep on some of the feedback I've gotten here. @Gamisch , I do realize that women seem to be thinking less about the nuclear family. I agree 100% with you, the woman I try to apply this to, have to have good mother potential...
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    Thrill of the hunt or LTR? There is an option C

    @Murk I come here with the hope of engaging people in discussion. Because I know I am not the best communicator, let me try it one more time. Let's assume that a given man: 1) is not a "blue pill" man 2) get to the age (whatever that may be for you) where you want to have at least one kid...
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    Monogamy is the way forward

    There are other options than pure monogamy and 'chasing tail'. All of them have their own problems. I tried to make some discussion about self-aware serial monogamy and the importance of always having an exit plan no matter what you do here...
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    Thrill of the hunt or LTR? There is an option C

    @SW15 Thanks for the references, he addresses the idea of self-aware serial monogamy, as well as other possible options. As a side comment: I am wary of the fact that he gives drama such a negative connotation, when in my opinion, 1) small amounts of controlled drama actually helps you to...
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    Thrill of the hunt or LTR? There is an option C

    Good discussion. I’ve tried to comment on your thoughts: Stringpuller Just to make sure we are clear, what I am referring to is to "Self-Aware" Serial Monogamy. Again, nothing new, and clearly sustainable for society. (further reading: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monogamy) My point here is...
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    Is being a bad friend good for attraction?

    Sorry. I did ask for your number because I thought you were interesting and wanted to know you better, but I really suck at this class lol, maybe ask someone else. (or insert a name of someone it would make no sense to ask) I think this or something similar is better than both ghosting or...
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    Thrill of the hunt or LTR? There is an option C

    Test drive a couple of girls, choose the one you think will be best for having a family, have one or two kids (biological purpose check), if you care then invest on raising them and giving them a chance to be better people than you are, and that’s it. Move on from your partner (plan...
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    I miss my ONEitis

    I have been there and understand that the more LTR years and kids that go by the harder is to find the mental strength to do it. Nonetheless, I have come to believe that when a relationship is seriously broken, there is no other reasonable solution than moving on. Rediscover yourself, and then...
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    My girlfriend is out drinking with her hoe friend

    Hey bros. I find it interesting that many of you talk about disrespect and that you shouldn't allow this girl to go out without you, you should dump her, etc. Also you mention seeing her online in Whatsapp, and such. I don't see the point of a relationship where there is no mutual trust. If...
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    I got a lapsus and I told a girl "we can be friends", Am I totally scrub??

    thanks for your opinion bro, Ill follow your advice
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    I got a lapsus and I told a girl "we can be friends", Am I totally scrub??

    Ill try to give my best writing in English. There is a girl who I like a lot(classmate).. a couple months ago (just before vacations) I invited her to a hike, she accepted and everything was going ok..the day before the hike she text me asking me if she could brings a friend (another girl) to...
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