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    So I went to a Tantra Speed-Dating event...INTERESTING results

    I sort of understand. Some women will think they detect “mysoginism” and veto you for that. However, I doubt that happens if they find you irresistibly handsome. My conclusion is that your wavelength doesn’t match with the general population of young attractive girls that would go to a tantra thing.
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    I’m a “brown” guy in Europe and I only get foreign girls

    Probably not sufficiently overlapping wavelengths, it’s also difficulty to enter in social circles when you’re that age. If you were in the US I would tell you, listen: if that bothers you, 1) buy/borrow a puppy and go walk it on the parks regularly, then you’ll be approached by scores of dog...
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    Straight dudes who own cats have tight game.

    I know of two guys that have/had cats. One of them is a bluepiller of sorts, the other mentioned that he liked a girl that was texting me while we were hanging out, (I stepped aside out of courtesy, but I wouldnt call that tight game).
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    Lifespan of a modern relationship

    Hmm. I hear you. It sucks to end a 10 yo relationship involuntarily. The wound is still fresh for you, so might want to just let things flow until you come across a woman more compatible with your goals. Hopefully you have focused in other things that bring you harmony and abundance so you can...
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    Lifespan of a modern relationship

    How old is this woman?
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    Going On A Date With A Chick You FORGOT You Aleready Hooked Up With

    I once dated and fck a girl that I had tried to date (failed one time opener) maybe two years before… neither of us mentioned this at any point.. to this day I sometimes wonder if she knew all the time or had she sincerely forgotten. Oh well.
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    The time frame of the game now

    If I recognize the right attitude, sync the “contact” time with my actual free time.. which sometimes may be at lunch, or before going to bed etc.. If not, I’ll just let it hang until I find myself in a moment of boredom
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    Random women smiling at you

    I’ve had received a few smiles/looks that triggered an automatic response of smiling back or mirroring whatever they accompany the smile with. Most recent one was a girl that said hi and smiled, my brain automatically said hi and I smiled, and one second later I was deep in thoughts how it...
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    Talents And Skills That Can Get A Man Laid

    Being above average is all a man need to get laid. Other things might be required if you want to climb the Beauty ladder, do it consistently, etc.
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    No dating apps, no dates, no exes, no hookups: what’s driving the ‘boy sober’ trend?

    OLD is first of all, a business. As such, they optimize to keep people subscribed. They do top level statistic and psychological (to name a few) research in order to keep coming up with the next hook, I wouldn’t blame convenience seeeking men. Heck I wouldn’t even blame women. Cui bono? In my...
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    The more fake you are

    The way I tried to make it less complicated for me: let’s imagine a line that marks the 50/50% power balance in a LTR. Then as a rule of thumb, I’m always striving to be slightly over 50%. Things usually break when you’re either too below or too above 50% for too long, so another lesson I...
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    combat sports attractive to the female?

    I’d say not much, but it can be a good skill to have. If you just do it for the training, it can be a nice way to be in great shape. With ultimately will help with women.
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    Do you think this motor-mouth chick has just been pumped & dumped so many times by Chad that she'll never be a good wife?

    Women in instagram will post similar stuff in updates, just lesser effort than making a YouTube video, but I believe the trend is there. I’d be delighted to find a social circle (less than 30yo) that doesn’t use social media in related ways in this day and age.
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    How much of attraction is "compatibility"?

    I personally can’t stand radical feminism and had to drop a somewjat hot girl because of it. No regrets.
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    best humor tips?

    Another one: Take any subject and decompose it while noticing the double standards
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    Confidence vs RP Knowledge

    Just beware the excess of money doesn’t really matter. All you need is the right amount of money to live the life you want.
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    Do you think getting to know someone long-distance can work out?

    It’s possible. It’s difficult. Requires you to travel to keep the fire going. I wouldn’t recommend it for people who have other options.
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    Ways to Increase Physical Intimacy on First Contact

    Women who are attracted to you will also find stealthy ways of touching you. One example, leaning casually on your arm. They will sit close enough there’s some opportunity for touch. They will also do the thing: oh you have something in your eye neck. Heck, I think I learned that move from a...
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    Ways to Increase Physical Intimacy on First Contact

    when I was on my prime I used to practice these: The old “oh you have something in your face/neck” then proceed to brush it off gently. Any dance that involves hand contact, switch to hold hands a little tighter than usual on and off. high five in a moment that she does something cool, then...
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    Hobbies and Ways to Naturally Meet Girls? Dancing?

    Salsa girls are generally spicy. id say, that getting the salsa basics can be good down the road. Just the basics, there’s no point in competing with Latino Chad that has been dancing since he’s 2 yo. complement with having a sweet middle sized puppy, the more energy the better. You’ll meet...
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