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    Are Dating Apps really that bad right now

    Last week I saw a flyer about a singles mixer in the gym front desk, of all places. It’s a good omen, related to what is said above by Bingo. That, and the fact that for a woman that is reasonably attractive, the time spend in filtering among the hundreds of men in an app actually takes a toll...
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    The Confidence-Competence Loop: How to Build It If You Don’t “Naturally” Feel Confident First

    I appreciated that reference. I have to half agree with you on the second part. Ugly people do just fine on similar looks leagues, and it is possible (and actually pretty common) to go upward leagues proportionally to favorable combinations of Hair, Status, Money, Personality.
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    Lost girl after sex on 1st date. Buyer's Remorse, Auto Rejection, or Something Else?

    Let’s do the mental exercise: say you didn’t f her well enough. Would you want to be with someone whom you need to f real hard to make her change her opinion about you? my bias answer would be hell no. A woman that’s really attracted to you won’t measure you only on sex skills. Her blood would...
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    What is the expected success rate at college bars?

    For what is worth it. If the girl thinks you’re or look “creepy-ish” you’re done. If the girl thinks you’re attractive she’ll cut you some slack proportional to your attractiveness. Hence I second AA advice of becoming attractive. There’s plenty of material in SS to get going on that...
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    To attract women: be fun or be serious?

    To the original question. In my experience, better to be serious than fun. Better yet, you’re serious with pretty much everyone, but you show her your fun side, sometimes.
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    Approach in The Gym?

    I second Bingo’s advice. If I may add, wear shirts with cool logos/images fun socks etc and if a girl happens to tell you oh I like your shirt, do not lose the opportunity for conversation, example don’t just say thanks but say oh thanks, what exactly did you like about it? Smirk, then just be...
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    Getting Back Together

    Exceptional circumstances.
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    The Essential Role of Men in sex

    It’s possible to be in only one LTR and have lots of sex. Of course, if you choose to always do the same, you’re not gonna be learning much. I’d consider a man is ok in bed if he can make a woman *** repeatedly with at least 3/4 of these: words, fingers, tongue, and D. 4/4 is ideal. Then there...
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    How to make your dating life less dreadful

    I go to bars with dance floor once in a while. There’s definitely young people there but they all seem to come in groups. (All women, all men, or mix). I haven’t seen any men from outside a group successfully reach out to a woman in a way conducive to a date/etc. I have observed men in a men’s...
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    Article: Marriage rates are up, and divorce rates are down, new data shows

    This feels very Latin in the sense of all Latin languages. Happy wife happy marriage, they say, which can be interpreted in many ways. But how I see it is just about letting her pilot so she’s satisfied about her power in the relationship. With the non-explicit knowledge that when the man...
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    How do I let go, or should I even?

    Better yet, expect everyone to lack integrity, just different amounts.
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    The Story of my First Cousin (She Stopped Sex All Together & Cheated)

    It does look typical until she goes back and cheat the same day she got back with the other guy. Something is not adding up.
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    does true love exist?

    In my opinion, It does exist but it’s not what you’re picturing. For me, true love is to love without expectations. Do me good, do me wrong, I will always love you and wish the best for you, and suffer when you’re not ok, and keep you in my heart when you’re gone. Most importantly, this doesn’t...
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    Mature Men Evening activities

    You’re a real mature man. Based on this forum description, your son Juan prime is from ?-24 yo. Then the game changes and Godspeed to they all. jokes aside, I kind of agree, unfortunately for them, a lot of young fellows don’t discover this website until is kinda late.
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    Age is just a number

    I also prefer to look ahead, but always try to keep myself grounded on my own actions. I have the firm belief that a man needs to spearhead his agenda with enough self-assurance and some times to the bitter end. The danger with the mentors is that they might convince you to do otherwise, based...
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    Dating apps and data harvesting

    I though either phone or computer was difficult?
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    Should you make a woman regret turning you down?

    My take is that OP’s wound is still fresh. That it’s Ok. Give yourself time to come to terms with your frustration, and then move on, by that time you’ll think what you wrote is just silly.
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    is being friends w girls overrated?

    This is really all that is, at least in general. The girlfriends of your bros usually are pretty handy regarding introductions, It may have been the “how” instead of the “what”?
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