is being friends w girls overrated?

[Lotus Effect]

What kind of social proof is it if I have by my side a hoe? Or a dumb woman who through the way she acts/talks is going to embarrass me?
Furthermore, why do we need to be validated by having a hot chick by our side? Are we high school boys or mature men?

Dude, gatekeeping.

And cmon, you are thinking in a very black or white manner bro, just because she is not your GF material, it does not mean she is a hoe, or stupid.

And there is no need for validation, is just walking around in real life. Not walking alone in the effing street. Like, mingling with other human beings. You know, normal stuff.

 

[parabellum]

There are not that many unless you're getting social circle introductions that lead to meaningful medium to long term relationships.

This is really all that is, at least in general. The girlfriends of your bros usually are pretty handy regarding introductions,

yeah this one girl I am 'friends' with got like offended when I said she should help me meet other chicks lmao.

It may have been the “how” instead of the “what”?

 

[PlatoPacks23]

Stop thinking in terms of "should I do X to get Y" and just live your life.

Be friends with those who bring benefit to your life, and you theirs.

Don't overthink it.

the entire point of his board is to analyze and overthink

 

[corrector]

In addition, I have never heard of an incel or sexually repressed male with female friends, so I do see a correlation. If you can't even manage a friendship with a female, how can you manage sexual attraction?

That is a bit harsh. This is especially coming from a point where women, including average looking women do not find most men attractive. Unless you are a Chad/Chadlite, then you are not going to be able to have female friends in the first place since they are looking for the hottest guys. How does that work shaming sub-5 looking guys who are getting rejected and then saying they can't even manage a friendship?

Oh, and btw, there are at least a couple of other posters, not including myself, that have female friends and are incels. I guess the female friends are not hot enough to count. This is only hb8+ female friends we are talking about.

 

[CornbreadFed]

The counter argument I'd like to present is that when threads are started about the desired traits of quality/marriage material women, somewhere in top 5 - no male friends - is listed. So we know deep down that women with male friends are generally speaking low quality. Are those women the kind of social proof you want?

Any friend can make a woman low quality. I would take a girl with male friends that are validated over a girl with toxic female friends that put her in the position of bad decisions.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Any friend can make a woman low quality

And in fairness to the ladies, keeping company with the wrong women really can end just as unpleasantly for them https://motherless.com/7DEB0F5 as it can for us

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

im not sure I see many benefits honestly?

Well, if you don't like to converse with them, why are interesting in being with them at all? If you just want to drain your trouser snake, who cares?

My most loyal and trusted friends. Are women.

Some of my most loyal friends are women, absolutely. As for trust, not much to be trusted with.

As stated before, women friends are great for social proof and networking dating connections. And if you're observant, you can learn more about the prey you're chasing by observing them in their natural state.