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    Everybody deserves a second chance?

    If your same friend got into your car and did a burn out, would you say something? If the same guy picked up your beer and started drinking it, would you say something? If he verbally stated to your girl that he wanted to bang her in the next room, would you say something? As men, we are...
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    Im getting tired of this not working out. Who is good at texting?

    Text when you want, or don't text at all. Just make sure you read what her responses are. She said she had to work that evening. Also, think of texting like digital ping-pong. Short fast to the point and never text again unless she responds. No response=game over. Her: I have to work why...
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    Ex didnt say Happy Birthday

    In 3.5 months you could have gotten completely ripped at the gym, learned a new language, started a new business, and still had spare time to meet and fvck at least 4 other women. You chose to wait for a text! Life is about choices............you made a bad choice here. Why keep looking...
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    Is it too much to ask her out again?

    I would suggest pursuing things to do this weekend. Hook up with some friends, hit the beach, go to the gym, visit family, climb a mountain, hike a trail, hit up a bar with a buddy, etc. etc. etc. This chick just got back in to town. You've had to be stalking her a bit to get that info. Why...
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    Hickey or bruise?

    Agreed. Why on earth would any girl draw attention to a hickey received from someone else? That really wouldn't make sense. The true problem however is your lack of trust with this woman. If you have a valid reason to question bruises as hickeys, you may want to consider dumping this one and...
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    Drunk female friend

    A girl showing up to your place at 1am, drunk or sober, likes you more then just a friend. Drunk girls screw more easily. Not because they're drunk, because it offers them an excuse if things get complicated afterwords. "Mikephat, I shouldn't have done that, but I was drunk. Let's still be...
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    How do you rate women 1-10? How about this one?

    SkrooU........ She looks like she'd be screwing you! If you're posting a picture of your sister.....you're a sinner. Your lover........you're a loser. Yourself........you need work and a diet. 2.5 at best!
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    Lets cut the BS

    And it will be your choice to take that advice or not. That's how the world works sir.
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    Lets cut the BS

    The problem with a thread like this is that we now must cast judgement on the players involved. We all come in different shapes and sizes, with different income levels, and tastes. Our perceptions of a rule like HB8-HB10 can be different. Our relationship perspective can be different. What we...
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    Should Have Saw It Coming

    My final close to this thread. A while back I came here seeking help, or at least a place I could dump how I was feeling. It was the best help I could receive. This weekend I was at a party with a few friends, and heard that the ex got married. I was surprised at first, but started to feel bad...
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    He asked her to marry him, but she cheated. Should I tell him?

    My assumption is that you're not a good friend of his. If you were, you probably wouldn't be sleeping with his chick. If you are his good friend, your moral compass is a little fvcked. Not a friend= keep your mouth closed. Friend= subtle hint. Good friend= sing like a canary.
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    Need solid talk now!

    Married for 11 years. 9 yr old daughter. Marrige ended when husband cheated.(her story). Met a couple of her friends. Normal people who seem down to earth. My $$ never really comes up in conversation as she works and supports herself. The only time it has come up was when I picked her up in my...
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    Need solid talk now!

    All right. I'm going to hit the brakes on this one and slow it down a bit. Let's say you guys are right and the chick is a cluster b. Am I supposed to just walk away or is there some shvt I should be looking for? At 45 you would think I'd have this figured out, but I'm just wondering what...
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    Need solid talk now!

    I second this request. Diehard has been here for awhile and offers some solid advice. I'd like to know if there's something I've missed. Other then the relatively fast "I love you", was there something else? As for maintaining my frame, I think I've done a pretty solid job. My work and social...
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    Divorce party? WTF?

    I think these divorce celebrations would be normal. IMO most divorces happen over a long period of time, the hurt and pain were long gone before the final documents were signed.
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    Need solid talk now!

    Feelings? Maybe, but not as escalated as how she seems to feel for me. My feelings are more of infatuation then love. Losing control of myself? I think I've maintained a high level of control throughout. My career and social life dictate a limited amount of time. So controlling where we go and...
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    Need solid talk now!

    Little back story. She is recently divorced. She says she didn't want to fall for a guy and doesn't understand her feelings for me ( fake chick talk...I don't know). She has a good job and can support herself, but not near my lifestyle ( maybe she's attracted to that). She has a psychology...
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    Response to game playing

    Good stuff right here!! Lots of guys here on SS tend to way over think the way women will perceive them. They tend to forget to live life for themselves not the perception of others. I stumble into these ruts occasionally and I'm happy to read posts like these as a reminder. Thank you for that.
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    Need solid talk now!

    Well, been hanging with this chick on a regular basis for a little over a month. I can say she is very cool, very respectful, pays her own way, independent, and hot. A great package as a whole. The chick is super affectionate and very sensitive which now brings me to the next hurdle. We spent...
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    Response to game playing

    It's only a game if you make it one. IMO if your texting or using any cellular device to communicate, the recipient gets the text right away. If they choose not to reply for 24 hrs. That's their choice. Just don't text again until you get a response. When you receive a text, answer whenever you...
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