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Really need advice on this! Perhaps oneitis perhaps something else.....reading here makes it difficult!! I've done and said the right things. Yet , what do you do when a chick throws you so off target???

Been great after my break up....dated lots of girls and have been very successful doing it. Now I find myself caring and moving outside of my frame! I know it's not good, Any advice for settling the inner mind????? My free time is very limited. My SMV is huge! I just really need help with...

It's this value that makes me Leary of any girl I date. You can never tell if they're into you for you or what they think you can provide. It seems like they all try to latch on rather quickly. I've been very good at going on dates with no cost. I normally have them meet me at places I'll...

You're right! It's a shame with girls like this though. Such a waste of good material. I was actually fond of this one, and I'm still debating if I stick around to see how it plays out. Or at least svx a couple more times.

No. Although this last run of crazy bitc*es could be my penance for my evil deed!

I'm posting here because if anyone sees something I'm doing wrong, feel free to chime in.

Yeah, I think you're right. Last night my social schedule was a little empty so I stayed home. She of course called, so I answered. She's asking questions about me leaving abruptly, and I explain that I'm not looking at girls for friendship at the moment. She gives me the "I like you more then...

Thanks! It's just funny! I've kept cool. I don't answer when she calls every night, I date other chicks, and this was like date 3! They're some manipulative bitc*es out here in dating land!!

So what's the plan?

So I met this girl a few weeks back. Hb8, with a thick Russian accent. She's 39, good job, own place etc. I take her to a beach party with a bunch of friends and we have a blast. We go back to her place have a few drinks and start making out. We escalate to her room and all is good. I get up...

Is this your POF intro??? I bet it is! You're basically describing a non social person who spends a lot of time at home. Yet you wonder why you're finding women with no substance. Why? Do you think that maybe it's time to start working on the enrichment of your own life, rather then search...

At this point I really don't try to quantify women as "settling down". My LTR's have been 14yrs, 3yrs, and 3.5yrs. If one is around longer then another, Then I guess it means we were on the same path for that time period. I'm sure like most guys I hope that I'll find the one that wants to travel...

I've come to realize that all relationships are doomed. How long they last is the only true unknown. How much you enjoyed the time is up to you. Caring for yourself (mentally, physically, and financially) isn't what you owe to a relationship, it's what you owe to yourself. To let someone come...

No problem. I Reread some of it myself. Kind of makes me sick to my stomache when I see how far I'd fallen. The good news is that no matter how far you fall...there's always a way to climb back to the top. You just gotta want to. I'm confident you'll get through your recent break up. It could...

Thank you, and be blessed for the bump. It reminds me of the worst time I've had, mixed with the best help I've ever received. I learned to feel great about myself (through the help of SS), this is why I still post here.

Too funny little sister!! You've read way to many threads on SS as not to suggest that men value women as a prize. So whiskey ****, or a guy not being able to get an erection for the evening is an issue???.....yes! The biggest loss for the male is validation from the woman he's having sex with...

Quite the inquisitive woman. In your case, It's good to have a woman here on SS who contributes to men's questions and problems. So it's not so weird answering. Tenacity's thread is good. I posted in that thread about this. Mine was alcohol and really isn't the first time. Let's be honest, I...

Why are you lowering your standards by trying to hit on ugly women?? You have provided the answer to your own problem here: i.e. Talking about your past....blahh,blahh,blahh. Making inner game for yourself is as simple as making your life and yourself more exciting and confident. Increase...

Why not just have fun???? This is complicated. Added some notes to your post ^^^^

I think I just threw up in my mouth a little.