Search results

The crying was strange. All these people sitting around the bar looking at me like I'm a jerk making a lady cry. I'll chalk it up to experience and keep on keeping on!

My worry here is what you're referring to when you say "COULD BE SOMETHING". It's a "get to meet someone outing" not an interview for your future LTR. Taking things too seriously, or seeming needy often produces the same results you're posting here.

Ohh! Got a better look!! Why are you posting pictures of Samoan wrestlers on SS??

Alcohol is definitely a contributing factor, as was tested fo me last night. Spend a whole day with a chick at a bar-b-q/ pool party, make all the right moves (which in a 6 hour span is too much work for a piece of ass), get back to her place and have a few more drinks........... We're in her...

Nope!

The good news is that she was taking a shower. Nobody wants to go anywhere with a stinky chick. The bad news is that you are digging way to deep into your emotional playpen over this whole situation. Seems you're a bit more attached to your FWB then you lead us to believe.

In about an hour she's saying this stuff!! I'm thinking: YES this is the girl for me! Fvck NO! Totally agree. My problem is that I try to find the good in people regardless of their story. As I said, "she'd be fun to drink with, or even a good wing chick", but I wouldn't want anything else...

Google Buddhist meditation with your city or town name, you'll probably find a class nearby. I find that going to a class environment helps you to remain focused, and often offers more insight into enlightened teaching. You'll find that meditation can do so much more then help with anger. It...

Totally see what you're saying. No doubt about your skill, but sometimes it's easier to stack the deck for an assured win. Don't carry your married friends teaching them.......carry yourself confusing them. Leave them to the limited pigs in the bar as you feast where the hungry don't exist...

Not at the epitome yet, but doing well. The hard part is seeing women for what they see!(meal ticket, nice car, business owner, etc. etc.) sometimes I understand Tenacity's point of view! It really wasn't shutting down the chick, and I see your points as I saw them then. I was weirded out...

In my industry we do a lot of conventions throughout the US. I see married dudes hitting on chicks all the time, or getting hookers for the evening. Vegas of course being #1 for this behavior. You know your coworkers better then anyone here and should know which of them normally display this...

Met this chick a few days back. HB7 (face), HB9 (body, like model perfect). We're having a couple ****tails, the vibe is good, little kino going on, you all get it. Anyway, she starts telling me stories of her ex husband and how she tried to make him happy (cooking, cleaning, THREESOMES, and...

Don't give up!!! Even Forrest found Jenny!!

Ooohhh boy!! You really believe that you gave her a piece of your mind?? OP. Never ever send texts like that to chicks. All it does is shows them that they have the power to manipulate your emotions. Happy or mad doesn't matter! And look at ehat you said! i felt that pain last week, and...

Hhmmm. Dinner, bowling, and lunch. Bet you paid the tab. Expensive couple of hugs.

I can only answer for me saying that when I need to adjust my frame, I take a couple days to make sure all of my goals are being met, and that no one is stopping me from meeting them. Women are great for my free time, but my goals (physically, mentally, and financially) come first. As long as...

Well, in my world I reflect on choices which are the best for me. If I like a woman but feel a little dependency creeping up, I readjust my thinking accordingly. The problem with using your religion as an excuse to protect your self confidence is that after 30 days you have 11 months to use...

Simple. Each paragraph you posted is a different reason for your no contact. Maybe you are less into the religious part (as stated in your first post), and more into using your religion as a reason to just see if you can stay away from the girl. Maybe it's a game you're playing with her...

Cool, be you. You just may find at the end of 30 days you will have mastered that which is no longer there. A spiritual journey is one thing, masking your running from your own dependency as such is something different.

You're not mating, you're texting. It's kind of like a point system anyway. By having a girlfriend 11 months of the year it's haram (I think that's what you call it), so what you do for this 1 month won't alieveate the previous 11.