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Well, thinking that alcohol was the reason for your behavior is way overstated. Although alcohol has a way of helping you drop your filters, it surely doesn't add the needy/jealous tendencies you carry inside..........Do you see this differently? After only 3 dates you allow yourself to get...

Whoever the OP is could fvck any of them! A waist of time ensues........ Yet that may be the only available card. A sad thought.

I'll leave this for you because you seem to genuinely want help. I like to think of my Sunday's as a day off. I live in a very sunny climate. On my day off I like to wear shorts, a t shirt, and flip flops. I'm comfortable that way. When I go out on a Sunday, people perceive me as normal...

No judgement here. We can only offer advice from the info provide. In this case your reaction of inadequacy stems from your lack of self confidence. If you don't work on yourself and your confidence, you'll always have the same result in any relationship. Here it is smarter to help the OP...

Start by understanding two small things. 1. People cannot make you depressed. This is tough as you will have to remove the thought of your depression being caused by your LTR. Depression is a result of how you feel about you. 2. You are in the wrong place. Within yourself. Until you start to...

It's funny how on this forum we put letters to describe problems. We buy into the pharma culture...... I have ADHD, BPD, etc. etc. You faced your biggest challenges and overcame them. You lived in a car and became college educated. You beat what the "normal" black male has going against him...

And so the tale of the orbiter begins. Nice story. Friendship...........aahhhh, it makes my heart melt. WTF did I just read!!!!????

Whoops!! Grant Cardone....damn cell phone!

I'd like to think that girl #1 doesn't have multiple plates. Actually all indicators point that way. I just try to keep my options open as we all know any girl can have and probably does have orbiters floating around. This mindset doesn't help with the guilt though.

Heading out tonight to meet girl #2....****tails and of course the rest. This isn't amature hour. Girl 2 is on the phone with me as girl #1 is calling. I told girl #1 I was tired and not willing to drive 30 min. To her place, knowing girl #2 was in the bank. Problem is I totally like girl one...

Grant Cardine...........Google,listen,learn. Enough said.

Funny. I read it the same way. Insecurity with the facade of sadisim. These tactics work well with lower level women. Just remember: "Sometimes it's not the face you're fvcking, It's the fvck you're facing".

Which of the girls that you mention in this thread did you have svx with? Just wondering.

So sorry that you have to go through this. Every poster has or will have to deal with the same situation. Sadly there is no simple answer to letting go. Or if you are in fact letting go of anything. In my time I've seen a lot of life cycles come to an end. Some longer some shorter. None of them...

Totally agree with the friend thing. If the original plan was to hang out with her, then that's what OP should do. In this case however, OP got pushed to the back burner. OP now needs to lead by action, not follow by option.

Nope. Sounds like you haven't been around this girl for too long, so it's best to set up some ground work. She had 2 options tonight: 1. Hang out with you which was the original plan. 2. Go to a bar with her friend. She went with option 2. The invite for you doesn't mean a thing. You're...

Can't you just text something like: Hey, thinking about going to a comedy show Saturday night. I've gotta get tickets now before they're sold out. You in? If she asks how much tickets are, she's willing to pay. If not, proceed how you like.

Little brother, congratulations on your new found freedom. You may not see it right now, but eventually you'll find your world will open up in all sorts of ways. Use your time wisley in college. Get good grades, and bang every chick in that place. When reflecting on your past relationship...

Going to agree here. At my age I run across quite a few recently divorced women. I also understand LTR break ups. Since a girls number one thing to do to bother you is to withhold sex. Guess what she was probably doing for the last year or more of her marrige......hint : withholding sex! So...

When a girl says "have a good week", she's implying she won't see you for at least a week. When you respond with the same "have a good week", your implying you won't see her for at least a week. 4 days later you back pedal and ask her what days she's free. This makes it seem like you have...