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I'm making the assumption that the men posting here are not "average guys" that have been with 0-2 women by the time they're 30 and ask for relationship advice about getting out of the friendzone on reddit. Never happens. I basically never get any interest from "ugly" or even most mid women...

I'm not sure if I'm getting your point...but my takeaway is that if you have a female "friend" who you "use" to hit on other women in front her, the idea is that the 3 of you will suddenly have more social clout collectively, and the more women involved the better...the benefit from the female...

I keep saying this, and men seem to keep ignoring this despite it being common knowledge, but there is no single thing a man can do that will raise his attractiveness more to women than the social proof that being around a female provides, even if she's your friend (and as long as she's...

Nightlife is a joke now, and has been getting worse for years, and somehow got even worse after Covid. RooshV made a post about this way back in 2016 and it's still continuing. They're even more of a sausagefest and the women are either not-trying, wearing cinderella hand me downs, or...

Ehhh...sort of, but in my experience... Talking to high quality, high IL, high compliance women is laughably easy and low stress and you don't ever question where you stand with them and you don't need to write posts about them on Sosuave or analyze their actions. "There's no reason any man...

See, most men will say something like this to your friend "you have no reason to be insecure just because you're a short skinny ugly virgin. Your insecurity is holding you back, not your appearance or virginity". This is literally gaslighting. You cannot seriously tell me someone in those...

Unlikely. That's not how that works. Women and men aren't the same and you can't mirror circumstances 1:1 like that. We would need more context from OP to know if this is true, eg how long they've been seeing each other, if she's ever indicated she wants LTR, etc.

I think fitness classes are a bit different than being out in the gym floor, since classes are more private, intimate, and less of a sausagefest. While I don't think hiding your intention is good, I really do think that the gym is not the place to start escalating quickly with sexual undertones...

In my experience, women in the gym will give you IOIs and you 100% can and should capitalize on those. It's not always a common occurance, but it's happened to me enough times to know I'm not imagining it. One of the more common things they'll do is "creep" around me, getting in space and line...

Improving yourself is a meme, especially when it's done with the ulterior motive to increase your attraction to the opposite sex. Leveraging female friends as social proof is the most powerful method of improving attraction and any man who doesn't take advantage of it is making a mistake. Plus...

I was joking lol. I have respect for him as a poster, one of the few posters on this board that I really like. I don't think his comments were directed at me anyway but there are a couple posters who I've blocked after repeated toxicity. Relevant quote: "What does it matter what others think...

We are and I blame Amsterdam Assassin for it

Yes but the entire premise of this topic was built off the idea that abundance is simply a result of having options. I'm saying it's not. I never said mental state has nothing to do with working towards actionable goals and having a purpose/path in life; the phrase "chase excellence, not women"...

Speak for yourself. I'm an attractive dude and women give me a lot of looks...but I will go from being invisible and repulsive to desirable and chased, and it is entirely dependant on my mental state and it's happened so many times it's incredibly self-evident it has nothing to do with my...

Yes this is pretty much spot on

See my above post.... Will Smith has options beyond what any man in history could dream of. So if the mindset part is moot, why doesn't he have abundance, why did he develop onetis? I agree 100% of you said (sans the comment at "philosophizing" this, oh the horror!)...but there are more moving...

Then why do athletes and celebrities like Will Smith or Tiger Woods get onetis for toxic women? There are literally millions of women who would marry them in a heartbeat and yet they get attached and ruined by women who run circles around them. As much as I want the simplest explaination to be...

If you think this is bad you should have seen how toxic PUA forms like RSDnation were in the 00s and 10s, it was beyond laughable. Sadly the PUA/theorycrafting mindsets won't go away for a long time. I'm not sure why the MGTOW and black pilled mindsets are continuing to gain traction though...

I may be misunderstanding your point because we probably need to clarify what the word "special" means in this context. This whole notion is about avoiding pedestalizing and idealizing women too much, which only serves to increase male thirst, attachment, and desperation, and literally no one...

Are we sure women in other countries, ruling out 3rd world places like in the Indochina areas, real any better? I mean look at Japan and SK for instance - they have a completely different culture but the dating market there is even more fvcked than America, is that from feminism, or is it...