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In the latters case the heavy makeup is far more unappealing. The overall aesthetic of women like that screams "I have the clap" and "I will cut off your dvck and put it in the garbage disposal"

And trans people cut off their genetals and/or neuter themselves and that's even more permanent. Let them do it, it ends their genetic legacy which means they'll have limited ability to influence the next generations unless they have effective propaganda campaigns (which never work long-term).

It's worse than that. Men will claim that it's "ego" if a man doesn't accept the behaviors from a low IL women, the implication being that you're missing out on the sweet sweet pvssy so why does it matter? Why would any self-respecting man want tolerate disrespectful behavior from a women like...

Women always follow each other. There's nothing you can do about it. If you don't like them, don't date them, and certainly don't say anything to them because all attention to women is like a drug, especially negative attention since it gives them victimhood status. Eventually things self...

Mixed signals are not mixed signals. A girl who is 100% into you won't leave you room for doubt. Mixed signals = low respect/low interest. Probably the most direct way to gauge a women's IL is her compliance. The harder it is to make plans with them, the less interested they are; conversely the...

I do agree having that strong of a reaction to an aesthetic choice doesn't make much sense, but a preference is a preference. ... That said, I don't even find obese women "sickening" to look at (unless they're wearing tight and skimpy clothes)... Maybe he means "sick" in a moral sense, not...

Yeah thats why I said you should literally say "hi" or comment about groceries/exercise. I'm all about doing completely normal, non-scripted, non-planned, spontaneous interactions and I don't actually refer to them as "cold approaches" in my head in any context and haven't for years. I have...

It sounds better in theory than in reality. A better option is to go get groceries and say "hey i'm getting groceries at x time, i'd love for you to join" and then invite her over to cook with you're with her.

Conversely, if you don't have the ability to cultivate abundance on a whim, would having a few "plates" really give you abundance or would it just give you a false sense of security that turns into insecurity if/when they all drop off? I would maintain abundance is ultimately just the same...

I have started to wonder if claiming we do things "for ourselves" is always an honest statement. Some things surely are, such as taking care of your health because it makes you feel good and be more engaged in the world. Even volunteering at a soup kitchen can indeed be "for yourself" because it...

There are, I know you can pay for likes/follows too but it's so obviously fake. For it to be convincing and realisitic, it would require a lot of $$ and at that point it begs the question why not just leverage your money to get it authentically by being a club promoter or something.

True, but you can ask yourself what sort of decisions people would make if the opposite gender disappeared, or all people disappeared. Would anyone care that much about their appearance anymore? Would people still care about tats if the entire world disappeared?

I agree with this, but I don't agree with the premise that abundance is cultivated by "plate spinning". Abundance is a mindset. You can have an abundance mindset in a vaccuum, with the simple mentality or self talk that says "there are an infinite # of women out there, and I can do better" or...

Yes. Social proof is probably the biggest single advantage any man can leverage to attract women. In these settings it's best to make friends with the staff (especially any hot female bartenders) instead of wasting time with autistic spam approaching. The next level is apparently using an IG to...

I can't help myself sometimes. I just love to argue because I think you can even learn from your enemies. But it takes a lot out of you, so it's ultimately not worth it. But yes my friend has pointed this out, the ability to disengage from people who only exist to bring others down. It's a...

Sometimes I wonder if women get tattoos because they continually make the assumption that men like the same qualities in women that women like in men. For instance, many women think having a high paying/high profile career and being "busy" makes them more attractive because they are attracted to...

This is more of a general topic for general experiences and discussions about these two environments. I do think they require a different mindset and approach from bars and clubs because women expect to get hit on there, so I think you can use this to your advantage. I know this topic has been...

I said it's disappointing and sure, a bit sad. It's not like i'm sitting at home crying. I hit a new squat PR this week and I'm about to close a sale.

Yes I get that part but my point is that trying to gas yourself up under the guise of humble bragging or coyness in order to make her jealous is a bad move. I don't think it works to fabricate jealousy in such a way. It has to be subtle enough to make her think she figured it out on her own.

When did I say or even imply I was devastated? Or say anything implying this was a "romance for the ages"? I said we had a deep and genuine connection. You're actually just putting words into my mouth at this point.