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If a woman isn't interested from the start she will never be more interested. Men who think this just get played and manipulated while the woman runs circles around them and dangle carrots to get them to do "chores" with the promise of sex only for them to eventually stop having sex completely...

100%. Though I should clarify I didn't "build her up" in the sense of idealizing/pedastalizing her (I know better), but I did get attached too easily which is different. Reason being, we did genuinely have great, deep conversation and she was very kind, frequently asking how well I slept, how...

I don't like it. It obviously would imply the number is on the higher end, like 40+, as you will likely remember if its 20 or below. Women don't like when men are coy or when they try to do that sort of "humble bragging" thing to make her jealous. For instance if a women asks if you're seeing...

What does that mean, in your own words? In the last 2.5 years I've had sex with about a 15 women and almost all of them were unprotected. I've never had experiences like you described, though maybe i'm lucky. I always bounce once the true crazy shows up. Everything about her "craziness" is...

i didn't say thoughts don't effect emotions. im well versed in Stoicism and this is a huge part of what they preach. my point is we don't ultimately decide our emotions. but its getting late and i would be better off responding to this tomorrow plus its getting way off topic. make a new topic if...

psychology today is a joke and modern psychology is gynocentric/feminist horseshvt in general. i'll stick with Hume and Kierkegaard on your point though. thoughts can of course influence emotions. the Greek and Roman Stoics used this to their advantage

I don't agree I think emotions come first and we try to rationalize them with thoughts because our ego wants to think it's in control. If you think otherwise, then explain how people wake up in middle of the night with intense worry or panic if they were asleep beforehand. Emotions actually...

That's like saying someone in America doesn't have the right to be upset for losing their job because there are people starving in Africa or someone in prison doesn't have the right to feel hopeless because there are people in labor camps in North Korea. Fallacy of Relative Privation. Besides...

Why does it have to be either one lol. Neither I hadn't even heard of this forum until a few years ago despite knowing about Rollo for almost a decade

I can't really answer your questions but I do also agree this board and men in general are ignorant of how cultural differences effect dating strategy, intentions, expectations, etc. For instance, many men insist you must wait for the women to "push" for a relationship, but in some cultures it's...

Yup. The biggest ego trip going is to pretend you don't have an ego (and we don't actually have one in a real sense, but it does exist conceptually as a powerful social/evolutionary tool that we cannot shake off no matter how much we try). Recognizing your ego and getting out of your own way is...

I'm not 40+ but the answer is TRT

Yup, I'm aware of that. Once a married women stops loving her husband, (whether it's for a valid reason or just hypergamy), she completely disregards him as a non-entity and thus feels perfectly entitled to treat him like dirt and completely erases all the previous good memories and their...

Of course, I'm not saying men should be entitled to respect by default. Respect is earned. However, regardless of whether or not you deserve the respect, walking away is still the only option, so your point is moot. She didn't "put some distance" between us, she ghosted. That is a nasty...

Yup and I have an asian friend who's short-ish like 5'6 or so and he slays but he's also very confident and wealthy so there's that. But even before that he did well. But as I said, exceptions don't prove the rule. For every 5'5 man that can slay there's 10,000 that can't get a crumb of pvssy...

I don't think such things either, it was to just illustrate my point. I'm just being an advocate for the 5'4 Indian men who get gaslit that their appearance has nothing to do with why they can't get pvssy.

We haven't really been discussing her much at all but more general principles about relationships. But yes over thinking and analysis is not good/

So imagine how much better you would have done if you were 6'3 then

Of course it is an issue. No, being tall won't fix all your problems, but to pretend it's not a problem is foolish. It's not black or white, but in general it's going to be a universal hindrance if you're under 5'10 or so - you will have to work monumentally harder to attract women and many...

I'm very well aware of that. For that reason I more often align with the "independant" educated/career types of women even though I have my own problems with that...so I have to make compromises somewhere. My ideal woman would be a semi-independant type of woman, maybe something like a dental...