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Hot take, but I don't really believe there's such a thing as "curing" trauma, in a sense. As you alluded to, the way you deal with trauma is by simply understanding it, acknowledging it, and letting it go and heal over time on its own. Talking about trauma only serves to reactivate the neural...

Easy in this context really just means not having to think. Eg making it easy to lead, communicates well (even though all women say they value communication most of them are dogshvt communicators), helps you make the plans ahead of time (and actually sticks to them)... rather than constant...

I mean a simpler way of putting it is that a healthy relationship is one where you don't have to think about it.. As I quoted earlier "There's no reason you should ever have a hard time in a relationship." Yeah I was just about to ask that

who's they? Idk I'm mid 30s and that same attitude lets me talk my way into jobs i'm not even remotely qualified for. it's not that "be yourself" horseshvt it's genuinely not filtering anything you say

Well that's certainly a hot take. I don't think the chasing thing is something that goes on indefinitely, but it tends to in the early stages but yes there can be roughly "equal" interest and mutual chasing. But I do think you need to give women the opportunity to and not in some manipulative...

That's wild. Do you mind if I share that?

I hate face paint. I never do anything that requires a lot of work, just a quick costume change at most.

I don't mean to send cause you grief, but I don't think that was the right play. If a women reverts to overt communication and asks you if you're upset, don't respond with covert communication like that. It punishes them for being honest. If a women asks you if you're upset, and you are, tell...

I don't mean to cause you grief, but I don't think that was the right play. Lot's of men here and men in general have cultivated this psuedo indifference/unreactive passivity mindset where they pretend they don't care even though they all do. If a women reverts to overt communication and asks...

Slutty costumes or not I don't think women will go hook up with a strange guy in the afternoon. Unless by "pull" you mean get their # to meet later that night.

Just play into your strengths and natural personality. Trying to neuter your personality for mass appeal is dumb. Better to be polarizing and be hyper attractive to some women and unattractive to others. The absolute worst is for you to be a forgettable NPC where every women has a neutral...

Thats a great looking cat right there

Yes exactly. And, working out to attract women also fits in there. My point is, there's nothing wrong with that, but pretending it's "for yourself" is cope...it's ultimately dishonest because the implication there is that they aren't doing it for approval, when they are.

What is everyones plan for Halloween? I love Halloween and it's my favorite holiday. I used to be content to just play horror games or watch horror movies and thought I was too cool to dress up, but the past few years I've tended to go out instead. I'm still trying to figure out if people are...

you could be right but anyone male or female of any age can do this, including family and friends. i genuinely don't think i've ever encountered someone who does that sort of shvt because i'd sniff it out so early and remove them from my life before it would even get to that stage...

Bro what is this I don't even. Where is this topic going

I need to find a dyke to befriend but I'm not sure that's possible since they tend to hate men. Ig befriending a gay dude could also work since women tend to love gay men...

I don't disagree with that. But it seems like men back didn't even know what a quality women was nor did it occur to them that the sort of behavior described by the OP is not behavior you should accept from a quality woman in an LTR. There were a couple posters who "got it" though. Though it...

Oh btw...I was going to make a new topic but I'll post it here b/c I don't want people too many people to steal this idea... but more on the subject of venues to meet women outside of normal bars/clubs: Go to LGBT nightclubs. There are usually a handful of women there that go to "support"...

Bro it's so wild seeing posts from the 00s...I truly believe the 00s were in many ways even worse than today because men were utterly clueless and women were already benefiting from the new paradigm shift that came from feminism + the adoption of the internet/social media/smart phones... "Bro...