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She hasn’t seen him. She said she may. It was a tactic to get me to sway off my center. I ignored and so it took away that power. She’s in power game mode because I haven’t been in my power of self respect. She’s not laughing yet.

But bringing other women in to it will cause havoc. This black magic you speak of could work, but it would have to be natural; women looking at me and such. The ONLY thing I can do without dumping: set boundaries, Be willing to walk away from when she starts pointless drama, be strong in my...

But I can still gain it. There has to be a way. Boundaries, putting foot down, making myself scarce

Yea and I haven’t been reaching out to her. Doesn’t mean I’ll have to be with other ‘hoez’

Then why would she still be wanting to go on our trip? Call me? Text me? Hangout? Weekend getaways? Sex? Massaging me? Etc etc

Interpersonal dynamics shift based on what both parties contribute. In the first 6 months I contributed certain things. Now I’m going to contribute different ingredients. Her responses will be different now. And so the dynamic changes on what is removed or contributed. Relationships are...

I have no doubt it will be a challenge. But it’s not impossible. There just has to be new implementations and new sets of boundaries. Knowing my worth and being able to walk rather than feeling beholden to the relationship and sacrificing my dignity. That’s how you chnage things...

Classic response around these type of forums. I don’t. But I can recalibrate.. but you’re fixed in to thinking it’s left or right. Cuck or dump. It’s not. I never said that. I’m simply debating your points to figure out the correct course of action. And lighting a relationship on fire...

I don’t know if this is true. She might have been slightly open to new possibilities a few weeks ago, but she isn’t seeking for anyone. I did sneak looks at her phone to see if there was any bs going on.. there wasn’t. She did let me know a couple times that there were other guys interested...

I get exactly what you’re saying. I let my girlfriend treat me poorly. And that’s on me. But I can certainly turn it around. I can set a new bar by having a shift in my own self perception. But much of what’s totes around here is.. once something is lost it can never be found again with...

Well actually my actions since three weeks ago are getting better results than before. That’s where the change can happen Well she’s from there. She invited me in our second month to her hometown where she grew up. I said okay. And from there we built a trip going to multiple regions down...

Drop her.. weeks out from our South American vacation..? The timing of this all is the most difficult

How do I get the respect back? The admiration? FFFFUUUUUCKKKK

Doesn’t respect.. doesn’t admire.. ??

What do you mean?

I would be instantly done at this point if I found this. The ship would have too many holes and water in it. Would be no chance of saving it. The guy she messaged with a bit was existing before who she friendzoned. She has never had anyone new

She never said that? We just about broke up and some guy invited her to a BBQ; she said we will see. Then she denied it. He replaced for the following week (this one). I suggested plans the same day; she isn’t seeing him, she’s seeing me. I agree it was her intent that the important factor...

But doesn’t it start within the mind? How does one actually BUILD a new frame. Childhood aside.

My girlfriend says she’s doesn’t feel safe with me. Or that she totally trusts me.

That’s exactly what I’m saying. 6 months is nothing. So turning it around isn’t a crazy thought? And that’s different from a monogamous relationship..