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Or how about... 3 - OP recognizes where he went wrong in their relationship. Instantly changes his needy behaviour and starts working on himself while still being a boyfriend who makes effort. He goes out with friends, monopolizes his time with improving himself, figures out why he’s been...

So it’s important for these types of men to have something bigger than a relationship to deliver them that love, rather than expecting a woman to give back as deeply and hard? What is the foundation in your mind?

Yes and that’s what I’m working on doing. Getting to a place where I’m more emotionally strong and don’t need her to fill that within me because I fill it with myself. And by doing that, that’s what gives a man the ability to walk away.

Well I do believe my adjustments are simple. With or without her. If she doesn’t eject from our relationship it’s tealky just about letting her go if she wants to go, not being aleffected by her words, and building my life which is separate from her. I think I’m putting too much emphasis and...

Yes her interest is super low right now. But last week it was high. She was thinking about our future together - imagining my ring on her finger, moving in, etc. I know I could get a girl who likes me more. But I want this girl. I think a man should fight for what he wants. Especially when...

So I just have to implement being more cool when she goes to walk. And during this phase I’m in now, keep my distance, but when she reaches out plan a date of sorts? What’s your take on the situation?

I should also mention.. When we made plans today on the phone for our hangout tomorrow.. I mentioned I was going to my friends party tonight. She said “you never mentioned anything about this” and I said “oh it was last minute I guess” Anyways, after I told her that I noticed she became...

Well, the last time we slept with each other was the night we had the fight. Since then I’ve only seen her once. And on that interaction we made out twice. I see her tomorrow and we will see what happens. She just said she wasn’t going to sleep over. However, who knows about what tomorrow...

Yea I’ve already been broken by the events that’s happened on the weekend. You don’t know how much guilt I have and how sadly I look at myself for the fight and that I ran after her. I’m trying to look at what the current situation is and be able to give it properly. I appreciate you...

I don’t get why you’re pushing my face in the sand. I came here for perspective and help and you’re just telling me she’d be better with you? I already know I’ve made mistakes, but people can correct their course. It’s not over yet

You think she’s going to dump me tomorrow or something?

I’ve made mistakes throughout sure. However we have many good aspects in our relationship. I’m the first person she’s been able to see a true furture with. She was thinking of breaking up but now it seems as though she’s going to give me another shot. There has been damage for sure. Yes...

Why ‘oh my’?

I will keep this knowledge. I called her about an hour ago and we have plans for tomorrow now for a bit (but no sleep over or coming back to my place I don’t think). She answered fairly quickly and even while she was with a family member so I think this is a good sign. Because if she was done...

Thanks for the response. Harsh but true. I see that’s how I should conduct myself in the future. However, what would be the proper solution now. Because we have not broken up yet. So that means there’s still time.

Hello everyone. I’ve been a long time lurker here and have read the DJ bible a couple times so I’m quite familiar with it all. Still working on implementing it and having it be second nature. Found this site about 5 months ago. I currently have a situation which is leaving me in a state of...