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Thanks @flowtheory! Really like your advice around the forum. I’ll give this a go. I would like to hear from some of the women on the forum.. @SeekerOfTheWay ? @sazc ?

Solid. Thankyou When I see her again should I ask her how the coffee was and play it off like I don’t care? Because I would normally ask her how it was to see one of her normal friends. Also. We don’t yet have plans this weekend. Should I initiate this? Thanks again

Hey guys. So I have a situation. Recently I posted about my girlfriend and I having an almost break up. Came real close. I had started acting needy during the relationship, lost my power, and overly emotional. Since we had a fight two and a bit weeks ago, I’ve adjusted my behaviour MASSIVELY...

I don’t think most women would cheat on a guy for a body builder..

If you could read only 2 DJ bible entries and you had to read them 100 tines each, which two would they be? I’m needing to absorb some foundational material. Was going to grab Corey Wayne’s book and read two DJ bible entries reapeadtly Thanks

Right. Right. I don’t want to dump.. YET So the game plan would be to now incorporate boundaries. And massage all this weakness I’ve put in.. out. Always willing to walk.

But if I don’t give the ultimatum, then she still has free range to talk to him. Nothing is final. With the ultimatum I clearly state what fits and what doesn’t, and if she can’t get on board with that, then I walk right then and there. Doesn’t the ultimatum make more sense. I hear what...

Sure. My call, I agree. I’ve heard Eye’s thiughtsnon it and it worth mulling over. But I’d also like to know your thoughts on an ultimatum in this scenerio. Or if ultimatums are sure fire ways to destruction

Wait, I haven’t given her the ultimatum yet.. I’m planning on it next Wednesday or Friday. After I implement some more of my new teachings this weekend and such. Is the ultimatum the way to go in your mind? Or should I do what @EyeOnThePrize said? I will give her 24 hours to decide in the...

So Because of all the sh!t that went down and her being in constant contact with her ex, which I find disrespectful.. I was going to approach her with an ultimatum next week. Either to drop this crap and do our relationship justice or I walk. Thoughts?

Welcome to fright night indeed. Isn’t that just pure disrespect though for her to be in contact with her ex? Not every woman is doing this by-golly!

So the fact that my current girlfriend has been in constant contact with her ex is just part of dating a woman?

Well I enjoy having a relationship. And if my current doesn’t work out I know I’ll probably have another. You’re saying women’s exes are always in the picture somewhere as a fall back? Anyways.. some thoughts on my original question? Girlfriend business aside, because clearly will don’t...

Focusing on developing ways to become a strong masculine man in my life. So it creates true desire with my girlfriend (or a future one if this one doesn’t workout). And I’m looking for ways to start my journey on this. The above is a quote from an article and it states what women truly...

Sex is a tactic used to lure men in. So women use that as a utility to achieve what they really want. Control over the man.

Only do it wth really close plates, or girlfriends.

Thanks for your help

Well it can’t be fixed and the same way forever. Things can change. Can they not?

@Epic Days So when I don’t allow her vassilations to affect me. And when I can walk away with ease. And when I give without expecting reciprocation. And as I just live my life.. that’s when the tides of this shipwreck of a relationship will change?

Haha I’ve actually been listening and writing notes intently about what you’ve stated, geared in the direction of understanding it all and where to change and begin. wheb a woman vassilates that’s a tactic for her to keep a guy in her frame. Correct?