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Uodate: she had coffee with him today. Told me about it over the phone. Said she would never entertain a guy one on one if she had any sort of attraction or feelings for him and it’s purely just friendship 100% I want to trust her though. Will see what comes of it. Relationships are...

Ever read David Diedas ‘way of the superior man?’

a lot of relationships bite the bullet even when there are no signs. They are completely blindsided. We can never be sure anything in life, especially relationships, will last. At least in this situation I know what I’m dealing with.

It was a chapter in the book. They are a part of the overall narrative which ultimately shapes the individual. People and experiences guide us to what we really want and who we need to become if we accept the challenge

No. Just on a different level than you. Not higher or lower. We’re just in this life for different things.

That night I chased her down the street, I lost myself. It was one of my loneliest nights. I broke my principles and shattered my own self respect. I walked back to my house in the middle of the night with no girl and no esteem. One of those deeply quiet moments when you don’t even hear a...

No spaz. I will make a thread called ‘I tried to dig myself out of a hole I created, and learned much in the process: my story about renewal and self redemption even though I lost a girl I loved.’

I’m not saying I can stop anything. I’m saying I can do whatever I am able to do. Full responsibility.

I’ve made myself unhappy. I have her all the leeway and in turn she started to take advantage of it. Such is the feminine way. She saw weakness and exploited it. My fault. I’m redefining my frame so this does not continue. Visual approach would be if she’s backed me against a corner ready...

By casting spells and using black magic. The only way to take their games away is to be able to walk away and assert my own value via boundaries. I’m not in this relationship for games. So I can’t fight her games with games. That’s falling in to her frame.

Amen. Yea this thread is going in circles. Bro, you need to get the hell on with your life. What does it matter what she does or did do? You guys broke up!!! Move on and reflect. If your not working with her, get working on something else. Drop this thread what else can be done? You...

Okay. What are you trying to say on a macro level here? I’m confused by you, goodstuff

What? Tell me what you mean. Enough of this speaking in riddles

Old and lonely. Sad.

Barf. You’re just an old man at his computer cybering with a chick out of your league bro. Get a life. Go bring your master his PB&J sandwich, you wench Butler

Why not just for the sake of it? So cringy. Hop away. He wouldn’t know what to do with you in real life. If you kissed him, he’d still be a toad. No prince would be revealed. Just an idiot in a tux. Probably someone’s Butler

No. That’s game playing. What are these interpersonal dynamics you speak of? Sometimes I feel like you just say things..

I’ll keep it constantly updated over the Next month of July. Watch this redemption case

For sure I will. I can redeem myself in my eyes and hers if I take the correct actions. Nothing is lost until one or both people walk away. Or cheat. Or BLATANT disrespect. The coffee with a friendzoned guy was a test like @RangerMIke and @flowtheory said. And that’s a grey area. All...

If she was seeing other people or had definitive interest elsewhere we wouldn’t be booking more accommodations or have plans tomorrow and all weekend. She would be bailing and flaking. Not calling me just to say hey in Monday. She WANTS to respect and admire me. But that’s up to me if I...