But if it’s done to her she throws a fit and is always willing to walk away.
Because she doesnt care. You do care. So she has you by the balls.
I’m not in to us having one-on-ones with the opposite sex. I find them unacceptable if it’s not work related. It’s too close for comfort and it doesn’t build trust. I think if anything it brings it in to question. So I don’t know if I want to be apart of constant tests of that.”
Why would you say that much? If I can see what you're trying to do to her, so will she. It's an empty threat. It makes you look butthurt because you are.
If you just say "this isnt working out and I'm going to do my own thing. Take care" and truly walk away, that's how you gain respect (for yourself....her respect for you is unobtainable at this point).
Why use empty threats? It's useless and it's a beta move. Then when she does it again and you do nothing (again), you'll really look like a cuck.
Okay I’m still going to try keep this on track. Ugh.
When I see her today I’m going to tell her: ‘the coffee hangout you had with John is still not sitting well with me. But I’m going to trust you. However, when I go on one on ones with women for coffee or walks, I hope you can trust me .’
Then conversation done. No arguments or anything if the like.
And from there I will have my answer, then I’ve also stated my current thoughts, I’m opening myself up to other possible friends
You already have your answer but you dont want to acknowledge it. That's what you dont understand. Conversations with women about them disrespecting you DONT work. Walking away is always the only option. And I mean walking away...not an empty threat given in ultimatums knowing you arent really going to walk away.
hands off the wheel in her own relationship; except when she’s doing things to try get a rise out of me. Like she KNEW how I felt about this guy. She KNOWS what she’s doing.
Whalla! She is telling you. You arent listening. There is no relationship. You just still think there is.
She knows what she is doing....lining up her next guys.
Based on your grammar you seem like a smart guy. When are you going to finally figure out what everyone is telling you? I think you know what is happening but you dont want to believe it.
don’t. But she raises flags like “I’ve never had this before. It feels like we’re mentally disconnected when we don’t talk. It even feels like ‘are we together anymore?’”
And my response is always well if you want to message, you know you always can.
I know it’s a tactic for me to message her and always be the one to initiate contact so she doesn’t have to. So she can sit back and just relax her way through having to message or make the first move. It’s silly
Its not a test. She is clearly saying she doesnt want you anymore. You again just fail to accept it. Women are covert with their communication.
She picks and chooses what’s okay based on her feelings and can literally justify anything for it not looking like she’s doing something wrong or across the line
She puts herself first. Something you should try and dump her @ss. She takes advantage of you because you allow it .
She wants to have her cake and eat it too; with everything. But if it’s done to her she throws a fit and is always willing to walk away.
It’s actually impossible. Maybe the only option is to walk away. It’s just a CONSTANT battle with her. She battles everything. For control and power.
Read your own words. The read it again. Over and over.
She never submitted herself to you. After 6 months do you really think this train is ever going to go a different direction than it is now?
She is willing to walk away anytime and throws fits when you communicate how her disrespect makes you feel (common reaction from a woman who has lost ALL respect and attraction for a man btw).
So this is someone who is worth more of your time when things are like this after 6 months?
What exact are you losing by walking away?
Do yourself a favor and tell her "this isnt working FOR ME anymore and I'm going to start seeing other people. Take care". Text it to her. She doesnt even deserve an actual convo and you for sure dont need her trying to rebuttal you and use you as she continues to monkey branch.
Then dont respond to her again. Then go start hitting up new chicks. I can help you with that if youd like.
I dont like seeing guys in a situation like you are in. That's why I'm pointing this stuff out. But you have to take the first step and dump this bytch ice cold and get your balls back. Then roll up your sleeves and work on yourself so it doesnt happen again.
Glassguy
